Abi

BANNED · 12-03-2004, 04:20 PM

I'm sure u already know i have a lot of issues. Now one of my major issue at the moment is, how do i ask my boyfriend to come with me to get tested for HIV? The fool wants me to swallow, but the reason why i shouldn't swallow is cos i want us to get tested first..who know the punk fit get some HIV ish going on and u know what happens if i swallow dat kinda ish.
My question incase u don't get it by now is how do u ask a guy to get tested without him thinking u are thinking of marriage?

**DIZZLE** · 12-05-2004, 02:17 PM

u dont get HIV from swallowing

Dear Abi · 12-06-2004, 01:38 PM

Dear ABC,

Why not just tell him? He should be man enough to know that you're not accusing him of anything or trying to lure him into marriage. So I suggest you discuss it with him, candidly, but don't just ask him to go get tested. Both of you should go take the test together, that way no one is gonna get defensive or start having ideas.

@Dizzle. You're wrong. Studies have shown that most STDs, including HIV, can be contracted through: unprotected anal sex, unprotected oral sex, and unprotected vaginal intercourse. So be safe!!!

12-03-2004, 04:20 PM	#1 (permalink)
BANNED X ryder Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 13,127 Points: 317.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 317.00 Donate Rep Power: 0	Abi I'm sure u already know i have a lot of issues. Now one of my major issue at the moment is, how do i ask my boyfriend to come with me to get tested for HIV? The fool wants me to swallow, but the reason why i shouldn't swallow is cos i want us to get tested first..who know the punk fit get some HIV ish going on and u know what happens if i swallow dat kinda ish. My question incase u don't get it by now is how do u ask a guy to get tested without him thinking u are thinking of marriage?

12-05-2004, 02:17 PM	#2 (permalink)
DIZZLE Doctor do Dirt Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: paradise with ThugQueen and eve Posts: 12,935 Points: 12,047.15 Bank: 31,527.96 Total Points: 43,575.11 Donate Rep Power: 306841	u dont get HIV from swallowing __________________ Give a man a computer program and you give him a headache.... but teach him how to program computers and you give him the power to create headaches for others for the rest of his life..... Our dangers, as it seems to me, are not from the outrageous but from the conforming; not from those who rarely and under the lurid glare of obloquy upset our moral complaisance, or shock us with unaccustomed conduct, but from those, the mass of us, who take their virtues and their tastes, like their shirts and their furniture, from the limited patterns which the market offers. The compulsion to take ourselves seriously is in inverse proportion to our creative capacity. When the creative flow dries up, all we have left is our importance......... .

12-06-2004, 01:38 PM	#3 (permalink)
Dear Abi Moderator Join Date: Mar 2001 Posts: 348 Points: 392.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 392.00 Donate Rep Power: 23	Re: Abi Dear ABC, Why not just tell him? He should be man enough to know that you're not accusing him of anything or trying to lure him into marriage. So I suggest you discuss it with him, candidly, but don't just ask him to go get tested. Both of you should go take the test together, that way no one is gonna get defensive or start having ideas. @Dizzle. You're wrong. Studies have shown that most STDs, including HIV, can be contracted through: unprotected anal sex, unprotected oral sex, and unprotected vaginal intercourse. So be safe!!! __________________ Take Care, Dear Abi Ask me any questions.

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