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Old 05-15-2004, 07:12 PM   #1 (permalink)
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to date someone u know u wont marry??..this person is cool as a bf...friend/buddy, but lie lie will i marry him...i dont know, knowing what i want makes it hard to date cus i feel like they arent up to the ultimate role but at the same time...will make a fun bf....hummm
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Old 05-17-2004, 07:48 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I don't think it's wrong, because at least you will grow as a person and learn things about yourself/relationships.

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Old 05-17-2004, 09:46 PM   #3 (permalink)
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but if this person starts developing feeling for u...but u dont see the relationship like he does???
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Old 05-17-2004, 10:26 PM   #4 (permalink)
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That's what communication is for. People seldom see a relationship the same way. If you are honest with the fellow, it will be then up to him to decide if he is comfortable with the situation.

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ha...u b mumu o! u think say every guy that dates u wants to wife u ? na it don't work like that. Some peeps r only meant for test driving so no needs for the guilt trip
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Old 05-19-2004, 01:09 AM   #6 (permalink)
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ha...u b mumu o! u think say every guy that dates u wants to wife u ? na it don't work like that. Some peeps r only meant for test driving so no needs for the guilt trip
shotup..i need constructive criticism..not this naija style "abuse before u advise"...i'm not stupid, its just a question that comes up once in a while

i'm writing this in a funky mood so no hards
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dont ever try that honest thing...if u dont know if it's going to lead into marriage or not...or if u know it's just for the time being..good company and all...best to just enjoy it without saying anything n let the chips fall where they want to in future.........

No good way of telling someone (if u are in a commited relationship) that this is a phase n u are not what I see myself marrying...if u do, u might as well end the relationship n become close intimate friends if possible.......

whoever says he/she is comfortable with that...starts looking out for alternatives n better options out there....but what if the relationship goes well, n true to the cliche of 'never say never' the person ends up to be the one....

bottomline...don;t say anything
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dont ever try that honest thing...if u dont know if it's going to lead into marriage or not...or if u know it's just for the time being..good company and all...best to just enjoy it without saying anything n let the chips fall where they want to in future.........

No good way of telling someone (if u are in a commited relationship) that this is a phase n u are not what I see myself marrying...if u do, u might as well end the relationship n become close intimate friends if possible.......

whoever says he/she is comfortable with that...starts looking out for alternatives n better options out there....but what if the relationship goes well, n true to the cliche of 'never say never' the person ends up to be the one....

bottomline...don;t say anything
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thats right f'sho..being honest in that way almost most certainly wont work
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