Need advice

olamide82 · 12-07-2003, 03:30 PM

never mind... dear abi never showed up

Crystal_loco · 12-07-2003, 07:25 PM

damn! thank God ur not my sister 'cause i would have left a mark on ur body. I don't meant to disrespect u , but u sound very foolish. This ish ain't that deep , u need to let that negroe go because things might soon get ugly. I mean how old r u that the dude already has so much control over u ?? he deleted all the numbers in ur phone for what the fucking hell ?? this is absolute bullshit which u don't need to be dealing with. He is insecure and he's already affecting ur own psyche. He sounds like a psycho to me ....i hope he doesn't kill u one day or pour acid all over ur face so other guys won't look at u 'cause he sure fits the profile!

IgboGem · 12-07-2003, 10:18 PM

Sister gurl, he sounds very possessive. I don't think you should be with someone that is that jealous. I mean these are all the signs. Before you know he will start tearing your butt up. And then when you try to leave he could try to kill you. These are extreme cases but you never know. A relationship is based on trust and if he doesn't have it you are wasting your time.

kulata · 12-08-2003, 12:39 AM

Insecurity and trust problems.

It never gets better

Best soln is to fashi

Lord AnGree · 12-08-2003, 12:44 PM

why you lettin ur bf go thru ur phone and delete numbers anywayz its none of his bizness, the first time he ever did it you shud hav erupted like a volcano, reactin like he just killed someone cus now its too late, my opinion is that you dump his jealous irationally possesive ass before he kills u

BANNED · 12-08-2003, 03:09 PM

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Originally posted by olamide82
I have a very jealous bf. He doesn't want me talkin to any of my guy friends anymore... especially one in particular. But I told him I couldn't do that cuz they're like family to me and that he doesnt need to worry. We've been together for like 4 months and he checks my phone everytime we're together to see who I've been callin and who's been callin me and also looks through the phone book. I don't mind cuz I have nothing to hode but everytime he sees a name he thinks is a guy's he gets mad. So last night we were at the movies and things were cool, till he looked in my phone. And asked about two names. The first name I said is my friend and he dont need to worry and he was like "yeah, whatever". and the other was just a letter and he asked who it was, and i said a friend and he was like a guy and I said no. but it was a guy, but I knew he would get mad if i said yeah it was a guy. He was like it is a guy and i was like no its not, and he was like whats his name and i was like its not a guy. and he was like so what does P stand for. and I was like u act like people dont have nicknames. and he was like ok he gonna call the person. and he called. I was mad he called. so the guy's voicemail came on and he was pissed. ok.. i lied... i know i was wrong for that. but i dont think he shoulda called and i only lied cuz i didnt want him to get mad... but i guess i shoulda just told him it was a guy. and i think he was even madder cuz it was the guy he dont want me talkin too. but he doesnt understand that these people are just my friends. they even have their own gfs. and im a little frustrated cuz its like if he dont trust me, what the point of being wit him. and a couple months before.. he took my phone and deleted all the numbers of guys in my phone without tellin me. I was mad as hell. But i was like whatever, cuz I care about him. And I thought maybe he would lighten up. And since I lied to him about that phone entry not being a guy he was so mad, he was like he dont even want me to talk to him no more. But then he was like he'll talk to me later. which for him will be anywhere between 2-5 days. cuz everytime he get mad at me.. and all the other times i didnt do anything worng... he ignores me for days. so i dont even know if we're still together. but i feel bad... what should i do. just wait for him and see if he'll call me. or try and tell him im sorry

Why is the holy spirit telling me you made that shit up?

Crystal_loco · 12-08-2003, 03:55 PM

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Originally posted by ABC

Why is the holy spirit telling me you made that shit up?

she didn't make it up. She has been talking about possessive men since 19 gbogoro!

olamide82 · 12-10-2003, 03:30 AM

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Originally posted by angry
why you lettin ur bf go thru ur phone and delete numbers anywayz its none of his bizness, the first time he ever did it you shud hav erupted like a volcano, reactin like he just killed someone cus now its too late, my opinion is that you dump his jealous irationally possesive ass before he kills u

i did erupt.. and he was like "is this why you're yelling at me... u've never raised your voice to me before" so it was like the point of me being angry was totally brushed off by hime and he was more concerned that i would yell at him for something which i guess he thought was real trivial

olamide82 · 12-10-2003, 03:31 AM

i guess you all are right.. but it doesnt matter anymore.. cuz he still aint talkin to me.. so i guess my problem is solved... im not shamed to say i feel very relieved

Righty · 12-11-2003, 08:51 AM

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Originally posted by olamide82
i guess you all are right.. but it doesnt matter anymore.. cuz he still aint talkin to me.. so i guess my problem is solved... im not shamed to say i feel very relieved

best believe he's gonna be back & u'll take him back!!

Spoiled69 · 12-11-2003, 03:49 PM

Dear Olamidid (or however you shell ur name)
dumb ass, whats the point of editing your question? someone already quoted you. haahahah, but dont worry, i didnt read it, too long. Well from what I Read, (the first sentence) your boyfriend sounds like a douche bag. I say cheat on him.

good luck

olamide82 · 12-13-2003, 03:42 AM

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Originally posted by Spoiled69
Dear Olamidid (or however you shell ur name)
dumb ass, whats the point of editing your question? someone already quoted you. haahahah, but dont worry, i didnt read it, too long. Well from what I Read, (the first sentence) your boyfriend sounds like a douche bag. I say cheat on him.
good luck

im not a dumb ass and if u had read what i put in its place u would have the answer to ur question. it doesnt matter if someone else quoted it, i was talkin to dear abi and she didnt respond.

01-23-2004, 02:16 AM

im happy ure out of dat rubbish

lhorla · 01-23-2004, 09:27 AM

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Originally posted by ABC
Why is the holy spirit telling me you made that shit up?

it doesn't sound made up to me cos i can relate to what she is saying, matter of fact i had a crazy boyfriend like that too.

**DIZZLE** · 01-26-2004, 03:32 AM

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Originally posted by lhorla
it doesn't sound made up to me cos i can relate to what she is saying, matter of fact i had a crazy boyfriend like that too.

That's what happens when yall be going out with AKATa hahahahah I like the way some of them handle their gurls...."Bish whatchu say...**Gbooaaa**"...NAIJA men is where it's @

we only cheat, that's all......not that bossy n insecure...just natural n normal cheating

12-07-2003, 03:30 PM	#1 (permalink)
olamide82 Registered User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Maryland Posts: 545 Points: 1,241.15 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 1,241.15 Donate Rep Power: 20	Need advice never mind... dear abi never showed up Last edited by olamide82; 12-11-2003 at 12:44 AM..

12-07-2003, 07:25 PM	#2 (permalink)
Crystal_loco Registered User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: U.S Posts: 3,800 Points: 216.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 216.00 Donate Rep Power: 28	damn! thank God ur not my sister 'cause i would have left a mark on ur body. I don't meant to disrespect u , but u sound very foolish. This ish ain't that deep , u need to let that negroe go because things might soon get ugly. I mean how old r u that the dude already has so much control over u ?? he deleted all the numbers in ur phone for what the fucking hell ?? this is absolute bullshit which u don't need to be dealing with. He is insecure and he's already affecting ur own psyche. He sounds like a psycho to me ....i hope he doesn't kill u one day or pour acid all over ur face so other guys won't look at u 'cause he sure fits the profile! __________________ sugar sugar how i get so fly ? "I have learned that success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome while trying to succeed. Out of the hard and unusual struggle through which he is compelled to pass, he gets a strength, a confidence, that one misses whose pathway is comparatively smooth by reason of birth and race" - Booker T Washington "Recipe for Success: Study while others are sleeping; work while others are loafing; prepare while others are playing; and dream while others are wishing." -William A. Ward No one is right, we're all wrong. If you are right, you are only right based on experience gained from being wrong before or you were just lucky.The best you can do is to work hard until you find your purpose in life- crystal_loco

12-08-2003, 12:39 AM	#4 (permalink)
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12-07-2003, 10:18 PM	#3 (permalink)
IgboGem Registered User Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Home of country music Posts: 815 Points: 5,216.41 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 5,216.41 Donate Rep Power: 20275	Sister gurl, he sounds very possessive. I don't think you should be with someone that is that jealous. I mean these are all the signs. Before you know he will start tearing your butt up. And then when you try to leave he could try to kill you. These are extreme cases but you never know. A relationship is based on trust and if he doesn't have it you are wasting your time.

12-10-2003, 03:31 AM	#9 (permalink)
olamide82 Registered User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Maryland Posts: 545 Points: 1,241.15 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 1,241.15 Donate Rep Power: 20	i guess you all are right.. but it doesnt matter anymore.. cuz he still aint talkin to me.. so i guess my problem is solved... im not shamed to say i feel very relieved

12-11-2003, 03:49 PM	#11 (permalink)
Spoiled69 JJC Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Dear Abi Posts: 35 Points: 123.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 123.00 Donate Rep Power: 0	Dear Olamidid (or however you shell ur name) dumb ass, whats the point of editing your question? someone already quoted you. haahahah, but dont worry, i didnt read it, too long. Well from what I Read, (the first sentence) your boyfriend sounds like a douche bag. I say cheat on him. good luck

01-23-2004, 02:16 AM	#13 (permalink)
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