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Old 06-20-2003, 04:04 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default I'm in love with two men

I really like this guy, he is one of the most handsome men aroaund, great dresser, suave dancer and a happles romantic. However though he is shorter than I and this is an issue

on the other hand, my incumbent boyfriend, is cute and fortunately tall enough for me to show off. He isn't a romantic, he seems funny at best, and is a little too focused on work. But I love him though


now I don't knwo who to pick.
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Old 06-20-2003, 08:50 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: I'm in love with two men

So your stupid ass is female...I thought you were a dude all along. It would have at least explained your stupidity this morning...oh well...thats all water under the bridge.

dumb ass women who have something good and still looking elsewhere...tomorrow you'll say I am jobless. I guess your joblessness has got your mind wondering about. Also explains your user name.

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I really like this guy, he is one of the most handsome men aroaund, great dresser, suave dancer and a happles romantic. However though he is shorter than I and this is an issue

on the other hand, my incumbent boyfriend, is cute and fortunately tall enough for me to show off. He isn't a romantic, he seems funny at best, and is a little too focused on work. But I love him though


now I don't knwo who to pick.
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Old 06-20-2003, 10:33 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Default Re: Re: I'm in love with two men

COLD!!!


Anyways @Death Angel, the stupid mistake some of us tend to make is that we get hung up on looks, how they look and what our friends (etc) will think when we say this is our bf/gf whether they are fine or not, whether they are short or tall...whether they have a big nose or not...etc...(u get the idea)

What's important is what the person have inside, the type of person they are, what they are offering you...and what you can gain from them......

No one is here to tell you what to do or who to choose, but u've got to open your eyes...look in deep inside of u...what do u really what?
Personally, i think when we asks this sort of question, we dont know what we want at all, we dont know what we are looking for.
You need to get real with yourself.....would you rather be with a man just cos he looks good or because he makes u feel good inside/happy???

Btw,I dont think u are in love with two guys...




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So your stupid ass is female...I thought you were a dude all along. It would have at least explained your stupidity this morning...oh well...thats all water under the bridge.

dumb ass women who have something good and still looking elsewhere...tomorrow you'll say I am jobless. I guess your joblessness has got your mind wondering about. Also explains your user name.

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So your stupid ass is female...I thought you were a dude all along. It would have at least explained your stupidity this morning...oh well...thats all water under the bridge.

dumb ass women who have something good and still looking elsewhere...tomorrow you'll say I am jobless. I guess your joblessness has got your mind wondering about. Also explains your user name.

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I really like this guy, he is one of the most handsome men aroaund, great dresser, suave dancer and a happles romantic. However though he is shorter than I and this is an issue

on the other hand, my incumbent boyfriend, is cute and fortunately tall enough for me to show off. He isn't a romantic, he seems funny at best, and is a little too focused on work. But I love him though


now I don't knwo who to pick.
this post really sounds stupid ( not the poster , mind u )
don't get carried away by the dresser, dancer shit. The guy u're with sounds like the more resposible person. I'm sorry , but there r too many broke handsome welldressed guys

The guy u r even tripping over doesn't have any tangible qualities , pls reevaluate ur attraction for him, how the hell is a guy too focused on his work ??? I must be missing something.
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Originally posted by Death_Angel
I really like this guy, he is one of the most handsome men aroaund, great dresser, suave dancer and a happles romantic. However though he is shorter than I and this is an issue

on the other hand, my incumbent boyfriend, is cute and fortunately tall enough for me to show off. He isn't a romantic, he seems funny at best, and is a little too focused on work. But I love him though


now I don't knwo who to pick.
I have a couple of advise for you:

1. Don't EVER reject a man because he's shorter than you. It seems like this guy has enough to offer you except for the height issue which you cannot blame him but God for. What type of work does he do and how old is he?

2. Your current boyfriend needs to create more time for you rather than placing too much focus on work. Girlfriend, don't EVER stay with a man just because he's "tall enough for you to show him off".
What type of work does he do? How old is he and how long have you been with him?

I can tell you though that once you start feeling for someone else other than your boyfriend, there's a possibility that you DON'T love your current boyfriend. If you did, you wouldn't have the time to be pondering about somebody else. This may very well be the sign that he's not the one for you.

Also, have you had the opportunity to hang out with the other guy to find out what he likes?
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