what should she do?

babygirlatl · 06-16-2003, 07:21 PM

a friend of mine really likes this guy but she gets folks hating on the relationship saying he too much of a ladies man and that she should not trust him. she really likes him and he is not really great with phone calls as he is in naija and she is in boston. what should she do? should she open up her heart and say how she feels or listen to advice from her so called friends who are so single

**Nene** · 06-16-2003, 07:50 PM

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Originally posted by babygirlatl
a friend of mine really likes this guy but she gets folks hating on the relationship saying he too much of a ladies man and that she should not trust him. she really likes him and he is not really great with phone calls as he is in naija and she is in boston. what should she do? should she open up her heart and say how she feels or listen to advice from her so called friends who are so single

pick her shoes and ruuunnn

Devilsadvocate · 06-16-2003, 08:02 PM

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Originally posted by babygirlatl
a friend of mine really likes this guy but she gets folks hating on the relationship saying he too much of a ladies man and that she should not trust him. she really likes him and he is not really great with phone calls as he is in naija and she is in boston. what should she do? should she open up her heart and say how she feels or listen to advice from her so called friends who are so single

fuck her friends....sorry for my spannish but friends like that are up to n0 good!! They are usually the single crunchy a$$ cant get a man type that do nothing but cockblock n playerhate, their goal is to make sure all their friends are single too so they can have peeps to roll with......I have a psychotic dislike for mofos like that!!

all she needs to do is to tell some of her friends to STFU n go get a man....if they have one, they wont muddle up other peeps bunezz!!

Dude hasnt done anything, they saying he is a ladies man....wtf has that got to do with anything, would they prefer a men's man instead...mofos!!

if she's gonna start something or not with the dude, it should be based on what's coming out of her friends' trifling mouths

babygirlatl · 06-16-2003, 08:06 PM

his not being able to call as much long distance is hard enough with out him being bad at returning phone calls?

**Nene** · 06-17-2003, 02:32 AM

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Originally posted by Devilsadvocate

fuck her friends....sorry for my spannish but friends like that are up to n0 good!! They are usually the single crunchy a$$ cant get a man type that do nothing but cockblock n playerhate, their goal is to make sure all their friends are single too so they can have peeps to roll with......I have a psychotic dislike for mofos like that!!

all she needs to do is to tell some of her friends to STFU n go get a man....if they have one, they wont muddle up other peeps bunezz!!

Dude hasnt done anything, they saying he is a ladies man....wtf has that got to do with anything, would they prefer a men's man instead...mofos!!

if she's gonna start something or not with the dude, it should be based on what's coming out of her friends' trifling mouths

excuse me dude, dis guy is probably yanshing every yansh in Naija and talking about his girl in Boston yadi yadi yadi , if the girl uses her head right , who is getting the shorter end of the stick ?
he doesn't even call her , she's the one calling a thousand times , Naija guys in yankee r full of shit , talkless of the ones in Naija with girlfriends in Yankee. D dude is playing d girl , PERIOD!

Dear Abi · 06-17-2003, 03:12 AM

No! wait for him to make the advancement. Since we know your level of interest, it would be nice to know where his is. So hold back and wait. If he doesn't come, mosey on to another person.

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Originally posted by babygirlatl
a friend of mine really likes this guy but she gets folks hating on the relationship saying he too much of a ladies man and that she should not trust him. she really likes him and he is not really great with phone calls as he is in naija and she is in boston. what should she do? should she open up her heart and say how she feels or listen to advice from her so called friends who are so single

cold one · 06-18-2003, 04:50 AM

ur girl needs to re-think the entire situation...first of all, money wise..will she be able to foot the bill to call nigeria all the time?
emotionally??? is she stable enuff, emotionally, to deal with a long distance relationship
with these two in place, nuthin can hinder her....if these are her friends tellin her all these about the guy, then maybe she should tell them to mind their bizness unless of course they have proof...then she better get herself out of there before she gets hurt...

Hazaq · 06-20-2003, 10:39 PM

Personally, I dont think long distance relationship works, and that's just around europe/u.s....not to even talk of naija.....

The person is like millions of miles away, how are u sure they are even holdin on for you...I mean when do they plan on comin together...living in the same country...same city...if they even have that plan yet....

She can do as her heart says....wait on him and all that crap (excuse me) or she can let go and find herself a nice man over here....it's all up to her.

How deep is there love really? they need to question that, and they being real with each other? Are they being fair to one another? they should ask themselves that.

**My view**

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Originally posted by babygirlatl
a friend of mine really likes this guy but she gets folks hating on the relationship saying he too much of a ladies man and that she should not trust him. she really likes him and he is not really great with phone calls as he is in naija and she is in boston. what should she do? should she open up her heart and say how she feels or listen to advice from her so called friends who are so single

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babygirlatl Registered User Join Date: May 2003 Location: mrs. land Posts: 1,895 Points: 250.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 250.00 Donate Rep Power: 22	what should she do? a friend of mine really likes this guy but she gets folks hating on the relationship saying he too much of a ladies man and that she should not trust him. she really likes him and he is not really great with phone calls as he is in naija and she is in boston. what should she do? should she open up her heart and say how she feels or listen to advice from her so called friends who are so single

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babygirlatl Registered User Join Date: May 2003 Location: mrs. land Posts: 1,895 Points: 250.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 250.00 Donate Rep Power: 22	but what about his not being able to call as much long distance is hard enough with out him being bad at returning phone calls?

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cold one Registered User Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: see bio Posts: 36 Points: 148.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 148.00 Donate Rep Power: 0	ur girl needs to re-think the entire situation...first of all, money wise..will she be able to foot the bill to call nigeria all the time? emotionally??? is she stable enuff, emotionally, to deal with a long distance relationship with these two in place, nuthin can hinder her....if these are her friends tellin her all these about the guy, then maybe she should tell them to mind their bizness unless of course they have proof...then she better get herself out of there before she gets hurt... __________________ www.soban.net where all the action is at

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