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Old 02-16-2010, 10:19 PM   #25 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by MsMarcus View Post
Iv never been in one. but I could see and understand how it could happen. if you are just so used to someone - its hard not to just go back. its easy.
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From what I have seen so far, on and off relationships that continue do so basically because theres a spark the couple enjoy and keep enjoying. Problem is they went off for some reasons (lets say 10 as an example).

Most times when they get back, they do so because of one or more reasons out of the ten ws sorted out AND what they enjoy (not the relationship in its entirety) thinking its the best they can possibly have prolly bcos they may have tested other waters or they didn't test but miss it so much.

I believe that whatever happened while they were off should not play significant roles when they are back together...errrr, but we know there are thresholds based on personal moral and belief systems.
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