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Originally Posted by Rotimi

Hol'up NP...how many relationships have u been in dat qualifies u to be da moderator of this here forum..... Hi, I'm hater....

Oh, and on da topic.....on & off relationships happen cause feelings linger period

If those feelings r strong enough, u're willing 2 wager dat the person has changed or even blame urself, then u jumpstart the relationship again....and again, and again...until something happens to kill those feelings.

Hi Hater.

You're right about the lingering feelings, but as far as the final sounding bell is concerned, it's not always the result of those feelings dying off for once and for all. It could very well be that one of the parties involved makes a conscious decision to do what's best for his/her sanity.