[PH Boy]

Originally Posted by dres

@PH Boy
Thank you for your advice!
Like I said we are not leaving in the same state, so I tried once to introduce this conversation by phone. He told that we'll talk about it later.

Permit me to speak frankly, but why is he not doing the pursuing again? I mean based on your description, you are a great catch..so whats with the "we'll talk about it later?" Dont you think something is off? Remember you dont want to come off as a desperate chick..wont be a good look for you.

Anyway, back to your post..... holding a serious conversation over the phone is not a good idea IMHO. You dont get to see the facial expression of the person you're talking to.... My suggestion is that you converse in person; either you visit him or ask him to come on your turf. First thing you should find out is if he is ready for a committed relationship . Sometimes y'all get caught up in the moment and fail to read the signals.... I hope it works out to your advantage......

Good luck

P.S. Please send the check in the mail. My beer parlor therapist education cost money 2 u know

*I'm not a relationship expert o. So please feel free to ignore comments posted by the PH Boy xter*