If its a one night stand, lets blame it on the alcohol or heat of the moment, a girl i don't know or the guy doesn't know that well, and also in marriage........forgivable
If its a girl we both know and it happened more than once, happened consistently and not in marriage.......UNforgivable
Once a cheater, always a cheater fine...i think everyone deserves a second chance but ladies its how u deal with it that matters, if a guy really cares abt u, doesn't want to lose u, and knows ur stands on cheating...he might be extra careful on how he goes abt it(lol) or never repeat it. Na only prayer that can help 4real. Its only a man that truly fears God and truly loves God that will not yield to temptations cos' girls, we too add to such nonsense. Ladies do ur background checks b4 u get too serious or do anything with a guy. If there's not enough demand, there won't be supply.
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