[lovetowork2006]

This is quite a long story so bear with me.

I lived in the US for almost half my life and I am now presently studying the in UK. I am Nigerian but never in my life went out with any Naija boys so it is kind of difficult figure out the way they act.

Anyway, I met this naija boy at my University (we are both doing Masters) we knew each other for a for about 7 months, we talked once in a while over the phone just to say what's up.

Over the last month, the relationship changed to something more serious. Just last week, he asked me where I saw this relationship going and I told him I wanted to take it day by day. He said he wanted a relationship with me and that he liked me a lot. He always uses this phrase, "you have finished me" lol.

He was going out with this white chick for about 3 months but they broke up and she wants him back. He reassured me that he didn't want her back but he wanted me. I believed him.

Anyway, I went to see my family this week in another city without telling him. So when he called me, and I told him I was somewhere else, he was shocked (which is understandable).

The next day, I see on his facebook page that his ex girlfriend wrote about meeting him that night, asking if he still wanted to still go out or if they can just chill in his house and she will cook for him. He removed the comment not knowing I had already seen it.

The last time I spoke to him was 2 days ago where he just acted weired and quiet. He said he was going to call me back because he had to go run and get something but he never did.

I am so confused. I don't know if he is just angry with me for leaving without telling him and wants to hurt me or if he is shagging his ex again. My question though will be why will he have removed her comment off his facebook page?

Now that I know for sure that I definately want to be in a relationship with him, this comes up.

PLEASE HELP...I AM SO CONFUSED