what exactly is cheating?

Enjels · 04-03-2003, 10:59 PM

Is cheating TALKING to other guys while you're in a relationship?

or is cheating having sex with someone else or is there a gray scale?

what is unacceptable?

Drake · 04-03-2003, 11:02 PM

what do you mean by talking? for some ppl flirting is cheating. cheating begins in the mind anyways....

Enjels · 04-03-2003, 11:24 PM

i like ur description of how it starts in the mind.

MR B · 04-03-2003, 11:26 PM

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Originally posted by Enjels
i like ur description of how it starts in the mind.

well, even the Bible does state that adultery starts in the mind...or more precisely that you can commit adultery simply by thinking about it...

04-03-2003, 11:30 PM

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Originally posted by Enjels
Is cheating TALKING to other guys while you're in a relationship?

or is cheating having sex with someone else or is there a gray scale?

what is unacceptable?

form ure boundaries in ure own relationship

**Daddy** · 04-03-2003, 11:32 PM

Cheating to me is

my woman ever giving money to any man that is not her brother or father.

cheating is my woman having sexual intercourse with another guy if I am not more than 150 miles away or 3 hours away. NOTE (she cannot drive/fly to be more than 150 miles away, that is cheating, unless the guy paid and gave her extra money and I get a cut)

cheating is sucking another guy, I don't care what, fuck, but don't suck, this is why I don't like kissing women I don't trust, cuz I don't know what's been all up in your mouth.

cheating is lying to me about how you feel about another man, if you got a crush on a nicca while with me, it's cool tell me, am your confidon, i will understand.

Cheating is no big deal so long as I am your ichiban/numero uno.

Turums · 04-03-2003, 11:37 PM

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Originally posted by Uncle Seggy
Cheating to me is

my woman ever giving money to any man that is not her brother or father.

cheating is my woman having sexual intercourse with another guy if I am not more than 150 miles away or 3 hours away. NOTE (she cannot drive/fly to be more than 150 miles away, that is cheating, unless the guy paid and gave her extra money and I get a cut)

cheating is sucking another guy, I don't care what, fuck, but don't suck, this is why I don't like kissing women I don't trust, cuz I don't know what's been all up in your mouth.

cheating is lying to me about how you feel about another man, if you got a crush on a nicca while with me, it's cool tell me, am your confidon, i will understand.

Cheating is no big deal so long as I am your ichiban/numero uno.

so you say.

Turums · 04-03-2003, 11:39 PM

I think cheating is doing anything that your partner considers sacred to your relationship with someone else.

For some that is sex, for others it is kissing, for yet others it is intimate conversation. Like Z-Baby said. Form your boundaries.

Enjels · 04-03-2003, 11:39 PM

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Originally posted by Uncle Seggy
Cheating to me is

cheating is lying to me about how you feel about another man, if you got a crush on a nicca while with me, it's cool tell me, am your confidon, i will understand.

Cheating is no big deal so long as I am your ichiban/numero uno.

really!? wow! but u know guys are more possesive and into the you're my girl & property and that has been violated

04-03-2003, 11:40 PM

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Originally posted by Enjels

really!? wow! but u know guys are more possesive and into the you're my girl & property and that has been violated

u obviously dont know seggy

Enjels · 04-03-2003, 11:41 PM

and anything that i do that i wouldn't want my boyfriend doing is boderline cheating.

Enjels · 04-03-2003, 11:41 PM

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Originally posted by z-baby

u obviously dont know seggy

obviously.

is he serious?

04-03-2003, 11:49 PM

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Originally posted by Enjels

obviously. is he serious?

ask him...if i ansa 4 him he will snap my head off

**Daddy** · 04-03-2003, 11:50 PM

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Originally posted by Enjels

really!? wow! but u know guys are more possesive and into the you're my girl & property and that has been violated

really! wow! you should know that not all guys are the same. One thing I understand is that you can never own someone, one thing that I know is that to OWN a girl I have to NOT OWN her. I have to let her be, free! she can go out, she can do her own thing, I am not going to ask her about details or query her. I am going to trust her, and I am going to leave the door open for her to walk out of my life anytime she wants to. When a man can do this, the woman usually stays real close to the man. Respect me, and there will be peace. I mean, if I am with my girl and a girl with a big ass booty passes us, ama be like like, damn. Now if a nicca looking damn good passes me and my boo, ain't nothing wrong in my boo tripple checking the nicca, she with me, I know where we stand. I ain't insecure, insecurity only crops up when peeps are having major problems and shit. I mean, don't play games, be real to everyone. If you wanna talk to other niccas, fine, but let em know I am your ichiban. Let me know what's up. and demonstrate that I am your ichiban by your actions, meaning, if I call, tell dat nicca that your boo is on the line and you will talk to him later. Shit like that. please believe it.

Enjels · 04-03-2003, 11:59 PM

That is MAD POSITIVE.! i like that, and wow, you've made my day...and i respect ur thinking. i wish more were like you ( i just hope you're serious) because you don't possess the disease of possesiveness that has plagued most of our Naija men

04-03-2003, 10:59 PM	#1 (permalink)
Enjels Registered User Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Texas Posts: 34 Points: 513.10 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 513.10 Donate Rep Power: 0	what exactly is cheating? Is cheating TALKING to other guys while you're in a relationship? or is cheating having sex with someone else or is there a gray scale? what is unacceptable? __________________ Live a life of Little or No Regrets

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Enjels Registered User Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Texas Posts: 34 Points: 513.10 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 513.10 Donate Rep Power: 0	hmm i like ur description of how it starts in the mind. __________________ Live a life of Little or No Regrets

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Daddy NR Daddy Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 17,601 Points: 216,280.17 Bank: 655,672,280.38 Total Points: 655,888,560.55 Donate Blog Entries: 6 Rep Power: 21474892	Cheating to me is my woman ever giving money to any man that is not her brother or father. cheating is my woman having sexual intercourse with another guy if I am not more than 150 miles away or 3 hours away. NOTE (she cannot drive/fly to be more than 150 miles away, that is cheating, unless the guy paid and gave her extra money and I get a cut) cheating is sucking another guy, I don't care what, fuck, but don't suck, this is why I don't like kissing women I don't trust, cuz I don't know what's been all up in your mouth. cheating is lying to me about how you feel about another man, if you got a crush on a nicca while with me, it's cool tell me, am your confidon, i will understand. Cheating is no big deal so long as I am your ichiban/numero uno. __________________ Born to Rule, Born to Win. The World is my Mine! If you want something you have never had, you must be willing to do something you have never done! You must believe in yourself, for if you will not believe in yourself THEN WHY SHOULD anyone believe in you? The_world_is_pushed_and_pulled, by_Fear,_Need_and Greed.

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Turums Allomancer Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: n'aka chukwu Posts: 19,596 Points: 49,520.12 Bank: 7,641,373.06 Total Points: 7,690,893.18 Donate Rep Power: 3695604	I think cheating is doing anything that your partner considers sacred to your relationship with someone else. For some that is sex, for others it is kissing, for yet others it is intimate conversation. Like Z-Baby said. Form your boundaries. __________________ Psalm 42:1 As the deer pants for the water brooks, so pants my soul for You, O God. *Best Independent Film of the year. Buy the DVD at* http://www.nighttofly.com

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Enjels Registered User Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Texas Posts: 34 Points: 513.10 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 513.10 Donate Rep Power: 0	i tot about it and anything that i do that i wouldn't want my boyfriend doing is boderline cheating. __________________ Live a life of Little or No Regrets

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Drake Scipio Africanus Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 20,354 Points: 231,092.25 Bank: 39,438,617.15 Total Points: 39,669,709.40 Donate Rep Power: 8738244	what do you mean by talking? for some ppl flirting is cheating. cheating begins in the mind anyways....

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Enjels Registered User Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Texas Posts: 34 Points: 513.10 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 513.10 Donate Rep Power: 0	sseggy That is MAD POSITIVE.! i like that, and wow, you've made my day...and i respect ur thinking. i wish more were like you ( i just hope you're serious) because you don't possess the disease of possesiveness that has plagued most of our Naija men __________________ Live a life of Little or No Regrets

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