Need Advise

[dlbonano]

Been dating this girl for 6 months now and i still don't know if to trust her or not, she goes to school upstate and i live in new york city. I don't trust girls because of things i have seen girls do. At the beginning of our relationship, she stood by me when i was broke. We use to talk on skype very often but she said she's now bored of it. She's beginning to act weird, we had all our information open to each other like face book pw and others but now she changed hers. She told me about her recent decision to get a tatoo on her ass and i said no but that case is still open. What really pissed me off was her facebook post.

18 hours ago post "I'm hurt!!! Now I really need to be home=("
a friend asked her and she said long story have to call him

15 hours ago post "smfh nikkas cuddled up wiv one chick nd asking the next chick whn we gonna chill #seriouslyso f#*kingdone"

I called her and asked whats up with the post her answer was she was just joking and it wasn't real. Does she really think am a fool or a dummy?
I could get a better looking girl than her, the only good thing i admire is that she stood b me in times of difficulty, my mum likes her and because she's a nigerian. I dn't know but right now i feel like she's playing me and dat am a fool. What u guys think?

[Ambossy]

how old are you?

[monblaze]

@ambossy good question...
@dlbonano maybe shes just bored, it happens in long distance relationships;
suprise her, spice it up, mix it up, find a way 2 see her
maybe she is going through a phase
if not, she may want out, ask her it she is tired of the relationship
n end it...
#okbye

When relationships begin to develop, they usually start out exciting, new, fun, and very hopeful. Time after the getting-to-know-one-another stage things may begin to dwindle down then the true character and personality traits begin to come in focus. One thing to keep in mind is that this can be the very phase she or you or both are noticing now.

Once you start to have doubts and questioning and decoding facebook statuses, it's the time you should reevaluate the continuation of the relationship. Is this the type of girl that I want? Can I trust her? Can I deal or put up with her ways and lifestyle? If you say no or have a hard time answering some of these questions, then maybe you should reconsider staying in the relationship. Why continue on with something that may be a recipe for disaster later? It's better to decipher what it is you want before the relationship gets too deep and harder to get out of.

Overall, I believe you should really think about what you want out of this. Sometimes in relationships we come to find out that the person that we are with may seem to be the total package or have very strong attractive attributes such as intelligence, beauty, success in a career, etc but it is just the "Idea" of the person that we fall for and not the underlying deeper part of the person that we should look at such as the compatibility of the two of you, comparable view points, and so fourth.

Definitely try talking to her and let her know some of your concerns and listen to whatever concerns she may have as well. See if this is something that can be worked out.

Hopefully this is helpful. Good Luck

[ogologo]

Facebook is the devil