Need relationship advice.

dlbonano · 11-06-2010, 07:50 PM

My gf said she was going to a party with her girl friends. I said ok u need it, u have been working all month. I said go drink and have fun. Then she gets mad and ask me why would i tell her to go drink and have fun, she said i don't care about her.

Is it wrong to ask ur gf to go drink and have fun? I didn't ask her to go drink and fuck everyone. Am confused here, is it because she's nigerian or what?

**Daddy** · 11-06-2010, 09:24 PM

It's not wrong to trust and tell your girlfriend that she can go out and have fun with her friends. So you was not wrong for saying that. It's also not because she's Nigerian. You can't lump a whole bunch of people like that.

However, it might be the TONE of the voice you said it. Perhaps it wasn't a sincere tone. Men are focused on what we say, women are more concerned with how we say it. Now, if you can clearly remember how you said it and you honestly said it with a happy voice, then perhaps she was egging for a fight before she left so she can have an excuse to "really have fun"

LOL. There's really no advice to be given here, but just watch your delivery of words, and if she keeps tripping even when you are nice, then buy a nice chocolate or carrot cake, put in the fridge and when she grabs a slice, run up to her and slap it out of her hand and ask her if she has checked her weight lately.

FDR · 11-06-2010, 10:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Daddy

It's not wrong to trust and tell your girlfriend that she can go out and have fun with her friends. So you was not wrong for saying that. It's also not because she's Nigerian. You can't lump a whole bunch of people like that.

However, it might be the TONE of the voice you said it. Perhaps it wasn't a sincere tone. Men are focused on what we say, women are more concerned with how we say it. Now, if you can clearly remember how you said it and you honestly said it with a happy voice, then perhaps she was egging for a fight before she left so she can have an excuse to "really have fun"

LOL. There's really no advice to be given here, but just watch your delivery of words, and if she keeps tripping even when you are nice, then buy a nice chocolate or carrot cake, put in the fridge and when grabs a slice, run up to her and slap it out of her hand and ask her if she has checked her weight lately.

lmao.

. It'd be funny if shawty went, "aww you really care" after getting five across the face.

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But yo, just ask her why that made her mad. Shawty might think if you ain't being overprotective, you don't care about her.

Nwashigi · 11-07-2010, 02:05 AM

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dlbonano Registered User Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: brooklyn Posts: 95 Points: 5,787.30 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 5,787.30 Donate Rep Power: 0	Need relationship advice. My gf said she was going to a party with her girl friends. I said ok u need it, u have been working all month. I said go drink and have fun. Then she gets mad and ask me why would i tell her to go drink and have fun, she said i don't care about her. Is it wrong to ask ur gf to go drink and have fun? I didn't ask her to go drink and fuck everyone. Am confused here, is it because she's nigerian or what? __________________ Tj

11-06-2010, 09:24 PM	#2 (permalink)
Daddy NR Daddy Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 17,649 Points: 228,280.17 Bank: 688,455,894.40 Total Points: 688,684,174.57 Donate Blog Entries: 6 Rep Power: 21404698	It's not wrong to trust and tell your girlfriend that she can go out and have fun with her friends. So you was not wrong for saying that. It's also not because she's Nigerian. You can't lump a whole bunch of people like that. However, it might be the TONE of the voice you said it. Perhaps it wasn't a sincere tone. Men are focused on what we say, women are more concerned with how we say it. Now, if you can clearly remember how you said it and you honestly said it with a happy voice, then perhaps she was egging for a fight before she left so she can have an excuse to "really have fun" LOL. There's really no advice to be given here, but just watch your delivery of words, and if she keeps tripping even when you are nice, then buy a nice chocolate or carrot cake, put in the fridge and when she grabs a slice, run up to her and slap it out of her hand and ask her if she has checked her weight lately. __________________ Born to Rule, Born to Win. The World is my Mine! If you want something you have never had, you must be willing to do something you have never done! You must believe in yourself, for if you will not believe in yourself THEN WHY SHOULD anyone believe in you? The_world_is_pushed_and_pulled, by_Fear,_Need_and Greed. Last edited by Daddy; 11-07-2010 at 03:31 AM..

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