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ada-toks · 11-15-2002, 11:31 PM

do u think ladies who dress provocatively should be held liable for soliciting any unwanted attention or should people leave them alone and focus on the predators?

i have an opinion on this but i no won influence the discussion in any direction

**Ugo** · 11-17-2002, 01:24 AM

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Originally posted by ada-toks
do u think ladies who dress provocatively should be held liable for soliciting any unwanted attention or should people leave them alone and focus on the predators?

i have an opinion on this but i no won influence the discussion in any direction

if i want to dress like lil kim (i.e. thong and bra) and go out thats my m.o. ..of course its going to solicit all sorts of attention- however that doesn't mean i should be violated/ fondled/ touched, etc...... whomever crosses the line should be seriously dealt with......

**NaijaCandy** · 11-17-2002, 06:45 PM

well i believe a real LADY would take the image she conveys of herself by the clothes she is wearing very seriously.. not because she can't dress trampny or that she believes dressing trampny makes her a tramp but because other people might gain that impression based on her attire alone. As unfair as it is it's a fact of life..

we would all love to run around naked.. and I'm not saying people who do are not good people.. but there are times when you dress for everyone besides yourself...

i.e. no one can tell me i can't praise God in the same outfit I would wear to the club.. but no one would take me seriously if I did.. and even on a personal note.. dressing for an occasion ( i.e. church ) in something a bit more responsible makes ME feel more serious about where I'm going and what I am going there to do.. so the way you dress affects your mid also...

It's always best to have discretion, and the clothes we wear should be a reflection of our good taste.. not our body.
( all the time

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**Exotic Beauty** · 11-20-2002, 04:52 PM

nope...

Emi · 11-22-2002, 09:56 AM

Well said Beauty.

tweetyree · 11-22-2002, 07:31 PM

The way u dress it ur business not the world. But people will always be people. But whether u dress anyway, if someone wants to touch ot talk bad about u they will still even if u have the best pants suits on. So I know when women dress almost naked, most of them are raped, toched and called all sorts of name. But I think the guys should learn how to act up or control their hormones when they see women dress they way they want and like.

G.Q · 11-24-2002, 06:41 AM

angeleyes · 12-08-2002, 11:08 PM

I thinlk that a lady can still look sexy without being indecent.You don't have to have your whole cleavage hanging out and three quaters of your thigh exposed or whatever(i could go on) to look attractive to the opposite sex.That only cheapens you.The way one dresses says a lot of about one.We women claim we don't want to be seen as mere sex objects so i think it's only sensible not to dress like hoochi mamas.

11-15-2002, 11:31 PM	#1 (permalink)
ada-toks Schiaparelli** Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: AMAZON JUNGLE Posts: 4,143 Points: 8,204.00 Bank: 395.99 Total Points: 8,599.99 Donate Rep Power: 28	coverup ladies do u think ladies who dress provocatively should be held liable for soliciting any unwanted attention or should people leave them alone and focus on the predators? i have an opinion on this but i no won influence the discussion in any direction

11-17-2002, 06:45 PM	#3 (permalink)
NaijaCandy Playette Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: PRIVILEGED Posts: 3,750 Points: 1,029.25 Bank: 4,064.33 Total Points: 5,093.58 Donate Rep Power: 214786	well i believe a real LADY would take the image she conveys of herself by the clothes she is wearing very seriously.. not because she can't dress trampny or that she believes dressing trampny makes her a tramp but because other people might gain that impression based on her attire alone. As unfair as it is it's a fact of life.. we would all love to run around naked.. and I'm not saying people who do are not good people.. but there are times when you dress for everyone besides yourself... i.e. no one can tell me i can't praise God in the same outfit I would wear to the club.. but no one would take me seriously if I did.. and even on a personal note.. dressing for an occasion ( i.e. church ) in something a bit more responsible makes ME feel more serious about where I'm going and what I am going there to do.. so the way you dress affects your mid also... It's always best to have discretion, and the clothes we wear should be a reflection of our good taste.. not our body. ( all the time ) __________________ Utmost Respected Yes, I too am saving myself for Ariya.. so go waste your hot breath on some altoids..

11-20-2002, 04:52 PM	#4 (permalink)
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11-24-2002, 06:41 AM	#7 (permalink)
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12-08-2002, 11:08 PM	#8 (permalink)
angeleyes l'ange du ciel Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: In the santuary doing the holy ghost rumbar Posts: 2,259 Points: 266.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 266.00 Donate Rep Power: 24	I thinlk that a lady can still look sexy without being indecent.You don't have to have your whole cleavage hanging out and three quaters of your thigh exposed or whatever(i could go on) to look attractive to the opposite sex.That only cheapens you.The way one dresses says a lot of about one.We women claim we don't want to be seen as mere sex objects so i think it's only sensible not to dress like hoochi mamas. __________________ TIME TESTED BEAUTY TIPS For attractive lips, speak words of kindness. For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people. For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry. For beautiful hair, let a child run his or her fingers through it once a day. For poise, walk with the knowledge you'll never walk alone. People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; Never throw out anybody. Remember, If you ever need a helping hand, you'll find one at the end of your arm. As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others. The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole, but true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows, and the beauty of a woman with passing years only grows!

11-22-2002, 09:56 AM	#5 (permalink)
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