02-06-2010, 04:02 PM
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Oga Sir
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Ladies, can you love a man but not like him?
A co-worker said she loves her man but she doesn't like him.
She said she loves him because he loves her and he takes care of her when she needs it, but she doesn't like him because of the way he is.
I think she's confused
I dunno if u can love a person without liking them
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wut u think? is it possible to love someone and not like em? Or is she confused in your opinion?
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02-06-2010, 04:05 PM
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Elder
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She's a goldigger
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02-06-2010, 04:25 PM
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Oga Sir
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Originally Posted by aderonkei
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She's a goldigger
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I can tell you for a fact she's not.
She's a hardworker. I know her that well as one. She works for her own money.
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02-06-2010, 04:58 PM
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Eléyinjuégé
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I think it is possible to love a person without liking him. However, that person would not be my man. I must like and love my man
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02-06-2010, 05:00 PM
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Oga Sir
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Originally Posted by talltolu
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I think it is possible to love a person without liking him. However, that person would not be my man. I must like and love my man
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give me an instance of a person or a situation where u would love a person without liking them?
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02-06-2010, 05:14 PM
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Eléyinjuégé
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Originally Posted by Boss
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give me an instance of a person or a situation where u would love a person without liking them?
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Easiest one I can think of: relatives; I might not like some things about them, but I love them regardless of flaws.
make sense?
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02-06-2010, 10:00 PM
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she loves somethings abt him but overall doesnt like him. u gotta like a poesin to be able to love dem completely. yes very possible. victims of wife beaters love their partners but do not like dem.
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02-07-2010, 08:13 PM
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Oga Sir
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Originally Posted by talltolu
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Easiest one I can think of: relatives; I might not like some things about them, but I love them regardless of flaws.
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It doesn't actually
I can tell u a few relatives I love. I like them despite their flaws. Yeh their attitude reeks sometimes but it's not like I dislike them, just the things they do sometimes.
However, if there's a person (relative or romantic partner or friend) that I don't like, I am not able to love the person.
U see wut I mean?
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02-07-2010, 08:30 PM
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Eléyinjuégé
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Originally Posted by Boss
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It doesn't actually
I can tell u a few relatives I love. I like them despite their flaws. Yeh their attitude reeks sometimes but it's not like I dislike them, just the things they do sometimes.
However, if there's a person (relative or romantic partner or friend) that I don't like, I am not able to love the person.
U see wut I mean?
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02-07-2010, 09:36 PM
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I think it's possible to love someone without liking them but that usually applies to familial relationships. Kinda the relationships where you love people by default. I don't know how you can love your man but not like him. Unless they've been in a relationship for a very long time... so she has some deep feelings about him that might last for a long time but she no longer likes him. If you substitute "love" for "care about", I think it's much easier to imagine.
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02-07-2010, 09:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Clockwatcher
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I think it's possible to love someone without liking them but that usually applies to familial relationships. Kinda the relationships where you love people by default. I don't know how you can love your man but not like him. Unless they've been in a relationship for a very long time... so she has some deep feelings about him that might last for a long time but she no longer likes him. If you substitute "love" for "care about", I think it's much easier to imagine.
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02-22-2010, 07:17 PM
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yup, you can love him but not be in love with him
There's a thin line between love and hate.
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02-22-2010, 09:11 PM
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you can love someone but not like their behavior. But most times the love you have them over shadows the behavior
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02-23-2010, 11:57 AM
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love is a misunderstanding between two fools. so if you have such a situation, they are both fools. waste of time, it's absolutely going to end.
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02-23-2010, 06:06 PM
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BABA iBEJI
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Originally Posted by Daddy
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love is a misunderstanding between two fools. so if you have such a situation, they are both fools. waste of time, it's absolutely going to end.
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this dude needs meds 
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