I need your toughts on this igbo guy!!!

[still_dres]

@Boss and unregistred #26

When I met this guy, the first thing I did was looking for more information about Nigerian men because they were new to me. I have received only bad feedback about them. Despite of this fact and because I don't believe in stereotype, I decided to give him a chance while being very careful.

I'm a positive, independent, intelligent and tolerant person. I'm also an happy and easy going person with an eternal smile on my face and strong family values. His first action was trying to put me down. I was even able to realize that I attacked his confidence, but I wasn't use to this kind of insecure men because Haitian men are very different (in a good way).

I agree with the poster #26 about the fact that Nigerian men, in general, are 'special' (mean no disrespect please!).This is also my conclusion. I have other African friends ( from Cameroon, Gabon, Congo, Ivory Coast, Benin, Togo), and they always tell me If they were in my shoes (with all that I have) they will have never even consider a Nigerian man because it's a waste of time. In their own words, they are savage.

My friend thought that he could control me by disrespecting me, but he realized that it was an impossible mission. I do have high self esteem. So he tried to play by my rules. However, even though he comes from a good family, he wasn't able to deliver the type of respect that I command (chivalry, good manners, respect).

At least Nigerian people need to realize that there's a problem. So many people can't all tell the same story and had the same experience with the same group of people. There's surely something wrong, and you guys need to think about it at least in your own kids best interest!!!

[Boss]

I'd put it to you this way

It depends on your mindset and what you are looking for, that determines what men you attract.

I'm not saying that you won't go through trash every now and then, but if it's consistent, the problem is you.

Now with the whole nigerian men are rubbish things...oh sing me another tune girl...don heard it a million times before, but frankly, those who sing that tune are not satisfied with ANY man they get. That's why for the most part they still remain single and bitter like #26 up there.

If you walk into some thing already having an idea at the back of your idea of what nigerian men or your own pre-conditioned notion of what men are, the result will not be far away from your initial thought.

[still_dres]

@Boss
Like I said earlier I don't believe in stereotypes!!!

Originally Posted by Boss

If I said go date other African men, you'd prolly complain about them.
If I said go date other black men, you'd prolly complain about them too.
If I said go date a white dude, you'd complain about white men.
If I told you, go date women...you'd prolly come back with some complaint.

So here's my point to you: go fuck yourself.

Thank you.

the truth hurt huh?? you go fuck yourself,....for your own information none of the other africans are like that!!..i have friends n been with ghanain,ivorien men and i can honestly say they have never been disrespectful or mistreated me in any way shape or form.....


@STILL_DRESS

YES o this is so true. Nigerian men are naturally dishonest! African men in general are naturally dishonest. They will look you into your eyes and LIE like there is NO tomorrow and feel NO REMORSE! Actually all men do it, but Nigerian men are best at it. Hands down....avoid them like the plague. i know many guys mess girls around but nigerian guys actually have a saying that goes 'women like to be lied too'.
is that not just evil?
i don't get it. this is not an unfair generalisation, i have seen and heard too much. only 4% of nigerian men have a concience. they make me sick and it makes me soo sad to say that.

and asn for the ones who claim to born again christian - well they are the worst so beware....why dont they stop cheating, lying and scamming. they are just wicked people the worse people in Africa,They travel to England or the US, to work and make money to send back home to their wives yes wives, as most of them have more than one. I dont have a problem with them working hard to better themself, but while they are here, they pick on inocent women knowing they will never make a commitment to any of them. they lie to them and cheat on them and intimidate them. The worse are the men who use going to church as an excuse to go off and fu** other women, we must be on our guard at all times to ensure our emotional survival. otherwise they will crush you and leave you broken.any nigerian man you come in contact with run a mile, if on the other hand you only want sex and no commitment, then enjoy and get rid,
stay away from those evil minded Nigerian swindlers. Marry your own kind & thus peace shall rain onto your life.............for the few nigerian men out there that have good hearts then i apologize,..i say "few"

hahahaha rubbish for your information im proudly married to good man for 2years now....im sure you one of them.reasons why you running your mouth non stop!!...shame on you my friend

Originally Posted by Boss

I'd put it to you this way


Now with the whole nigerian men are rubbish things...oh sing me another tune girl...don heard it a million times before, but frankly, those who sing that tune are not satisfied with ANY man they get. That's why for the most part they still remain single and bitter like #26 up there.

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[still_dres]

@Unregistered #34

Thanks again for sharing with me! My friend have tried to make me change my mind about him but he failed; he always tell me that he's not a bad person but... Even though I moved on, I think that I left a part of my heart with him, so I can't hate his people. However, The next african man who will approach me I'll make him run faster than he'll never imagine!

[still_dres]

@koski

Thanks for your comment! I prefer avoiding them because of cultural barier, and I think, in general, African men are more abusive.

ps: People try to be more civil please!!!

[makibobo]

Originally Posted by still_dres

@koski

Thanks for your comment! I prefer avoiding them because of cultural barier, and I think, in general, african man are abusive.

ps: People try to be more civil please!!!

ure very srupid. so if i come across a few AA miscreants or some redneck racist white trash, i guess am right to assume all AAs and white people are like that.

[still_dres]

@makibobo

I had to laugh at you my friend at least a bit. I most confess that I'm not surprise at all by your answer... I do have the right to make choices weither you like it or not, and I choose to avoid African men.

Thanks for your comment anyway!

[makibobo]

Originally Posted by still_dres

@makoboo

I had to laugh at you my friend at least a bit. I most confess that I'm not surprise at all by your response... I do have the right to make choices weither you like it or not, and I choose to avoid african man.

Thanks for your comment anyway!

yea yea...ure still stupid.

[still_dres]

@makibobo

I just feel sorry for you then. I meant no harm though... If I hurt in anyway by my comments my sincere apology goes to you! I never think that I would one day make such statement and, I didn't want to unleash your frustrations either.

[aderonkei]

Originally Posted by makibobo

ure very srupid. so if i come across a few AA miscreants or some redneck racist white trash, i guess am right to assume all AAs and white people are like that.

Lmao u sef they respond..no go give urself high blood pressure o. How was ur christmas

[makibobo]

Originally Posted by aderonkei

Lmao u sef they respond..no go give urself high blood pressure o. How was ur christmas

lol. no mind me jo. am just bored. christmas was aite. was snowed in from thursday till yesterday night. how was urs?

[aderonkei]

Originally Posted by makibobo

lol. no mind me jo. am just bored. christmas was aite. was snowed in from thursday till yesterday night. how was urs?

Christmas was great. Twas momsie's bday so we had people over at the crib.

[makibobo]

Originally Posted by aderonkei

Christmas was great. Twas momsie's bday so we had people over at the crib.

thats wassup. momsi's bday is on christmas?