Help!! I need some relationship advise... - Page 2

masky · 06-26-2009, 12:00 AM

As hard as it sounds, I think you should just let him be, at least for now. When you chase after a guy or keep asking him questions (especially questions that he cannot answer), he will run/avoid you!

If he really wants you, nothing will keep him away.

Boss · 06-26-2009, 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by masky

As hard as it sounds, I think you should just let him be, at least for now. When you chase after a guy or keep asking him questions (especially questions that he cannot answer), he will run/avoid you!

If he really wants you, nothing will keep him away.

eyienla · 06-26-2009, 11:20 AM

am learnin a new way 2 handle r/ship dats abt 2 get weird...

**kai** · 06-30-2009, 01:50 AM

Hmm..

Ask him why he didn't call. If he gives you some bs excuse, then put him on your low priority list, and start cutting ties slowly. He's the one that has to work at getting things back to what they were before, the ball is in his court. If he doesn't come around by all means let the dude kick rocks.

And don't let the appeal of competition make him more appealing though. When it runs out, you realize the person you're competing over isn't really all that. Don't let a guy put you in a spot where you have to work harder than him to keep the relationship going.

Boss · 06-30-2009, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by kai

Hmm..

Ask him why he didn't call. If he gives you some bs excuse, then put him on your low priority list, and start cutting ties slowly. He's the one that has to work at getting things back to what they were before, the ball is in his court. If he doesn't come around by all means let the dude kick rocks.

And don't let the appeal of competition make him more appealing though. When it runs out, you realize the person you're competing over isn't really all that. Don't let a guy put you in a spot where you have to work harder than him to keep the relationship going.

MizzUndaStud · 07-16-2009, 08:44 AM

girl u better walk away now...... you only think you want him because of the competition...just leave now... better listen now than later..he is no good.. he will never change.. believe me i have been there oo.... seriously just run for your life.. because down the road, even if he really really likes you, if the oppurtunity to shag that white girl comes up he will do it... men dont change over night.. they dont learn to give up ____ over night.... dont catch any emotions for this guy, unless you are ready to deal with the repercussion... believe me I have been there...

MizzUndaStud · 07-16-2009, 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by koski

ask him if they did something that nite

why? what is her business? are they together? is he shagging her? thats too much information in my own opinion...

**Nene** · 08-05-2009, 06:43 AM

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Originally Posted by MizzUndaStud

girl u better walk away now...... you only think you want him because of the competition...just leave now... better listen now than later..he is no good.. he will never change.. believe me i have been there oo.... seriously just run for your life.. because down the road, even if he really really likes you, if the oppurtunity to shag that white girl comes up he will do it... men dont change over night.. they dont learn to give up ____ over night.... dont catch any emotions for this guy, unless you are ready to deal with the repercussion... believe me I have been there...

word!
dude is such a cheater

baba_ibadan · 08-11-2009, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Nene

word!
dude is such a cheater

pst!.. are they actually going out yet? don't think so.... so he couldn't have cheated.

@lovetowork2006, lots of grey areas, u're gettin hurt before u even start.. u both need to make it official 1st... otherwise, u're both jumping the gun now...

allday-errday · 08-12-2009, 08:24 PM

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Originally Posted by MizzUndaStud

girl u better walk away now...... you only think you want him because of the competition...just leave now... better listen now than later..he is no good.. he will never change.. believe me i have been there oo.... seriously just run for your life.. because down the road, even if he really really likes you, if the oppurtunity to shag that white girl comes up he will do it... men dont change over night.. they dont learn to give up ____ over night.... dont catch any emotions for this guy, unless you are ready to deal with the repercussion... believe me I have been there...

You really should think about forget your failed reletioships and dont drag that bagage into the next one.

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masky Registered User Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: yankee/naija/uk Posts: 113 Points: 29,731.20 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 29,731.20 Donate Rep Power: 0	As hard as it sounds, I think you should just let him be, at least for now. When you chase after a guy or keep asking him questions (especially questions that he cannot answer), he will run/avoid you! If he really wants you, nothing will keep him away. Last edited by masky; 06-26-2009 at 06:15 AM..

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eyienla Registered User Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: igodomigodo Posts: 557 Points: 24,748.15 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 24,748.15 Donate Rep Power: 21474848	am learnin a new way 2 handle r/ship dats abt 2 get weird... __________________ abstinence b4 marriage a virtue 2 be jealously protected

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MizzUndaStud Registered User Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: God knows Posts: 4,185 Points: 12,630.30 Bank: 1,176,067.63 Total Points: 1,188,697.93 Donate Rep Power: 21474853	girl u better walk away now...... you only think you want him because of the competition...just leave now... better listen now than later..he is no good.. he will never change.. believe me i have been there oo.... seriously just run for your life.. because down the road, even if he really really likes you, if the oppurtunity to shag that white girl comes up he will do it... men dont change over night.. they dont learn to give up ____ over night.... dont catch any emotions for this guy, unless you are ready to deal with the repercussion... believe me I have been there... __________________ --- I love you Daddy but God loves you more..."Sun re o" --- I need more time, I need more money, I need more understanding, I need more advice, I need more love, I need another chance, an open hand I need more grace and a pretty face I need security, stablility I need more space, and I need more sleep. I want the happinenss not tears.. truth not lies, pleasure not pain, sunshine not rainAnd what this all comes down to is I need Him...

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kai Elder Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: at your local crack depo.. Posts: 10,616 Points: 37,020.00 Bank: 294,290,475.73 Total Points: 294,327,495.73 Donate Rep Power: 21474874	Hmm.. Ask him why he didn't call. If he gives you some bs excuse, then put him on your low priority list, and start cutting ties slowly. He's the one that has to work at getting things back to what they were before, the ball is in his court. If he doesn't come around by all means let the dude kick rocks. And don't let the appeal of competition make him more appealing though. When it runs out, you realize the person you're competing over isn't really all that. Don't let a guy put you in a spot where you have to work harder than him to keep the relationship going.

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