a lose-lose situation

SweetAma · 01-14-2009, 06:36 PM

So, this guy was like "ya I can't continue to talk to her anymore because I can't take a girl serious who does that on the first night.."

And this other dude basically stopped talking to this one chick who just wanted to chill and talk upon their first meeting.

Y'all dudes stay confusing me.

ogologo · 01-14-2009, 07:39 PM

so how's dis a lose-lose situation again?

SweetAma · 01-14-2009, 10:49 PM

i hope you're being sarcastic

k-fire · 01-15-2009, 01:54 AM

seriously wats d point of it all?

naija_pikin · 01-15-2009, 03:50 PM

lol.. There was a club-led discussion of sex on campus yesterday, and this issue was brought up. I had to call at least one dude out for his wack logic.

ogologo · 01-16-2009, 05:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SweetAma

i hope you're being sarcastic

not at all, explain yourself

naija_pikin · 01-16-2009, 05:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ogologo

not at all, explain yourself

On the one hand, if you give it up too easy, you're deemed loose and not worthy of being taken seriously.

On the other, if you're not willing to give it up, you're not worth wasting time on.

Make more sense?

ogologo · 01-16-2009, 05:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by naija_pikin

On the one hand, if you give it up too easy, you're deemed loose and not worthy of being taken seriously.

On the other, if you're not willing to give it up, you're not worth wasting time on.

Make more sense?

thanks, i get it now.

naija_pikin · 01-16-2009, 06:02 AM

De nada.

Boss · 01-16-2009, 06:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by naija_pikin

On the one hand, if you give it up too easy, you're deemed loose and not worthy of being taken seriously.

On the other, if you're not willing to give it up, you're not worth wasting time on.

Make more sense?

Ah...

*shrug*

It all depends on the dude in question then, u just have to be certain he's not the judgmental type.

olamide82 · 01-19-2009, 05:58 AM

it depends on how u look at it. ultimately if ure being true to urself and u are okay with ur actions, then it is not really lose-lose. but if u are letting ur actions be driven by what u think the guy wants then u have already lost off the break. no matter what u do, if it is meant to be, it will be. do wat pleases you

01-14-2009, 06:36 PM	#1 (permalink)
SweetAma Super Woman Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 8,328 Points: 293,202.79 Bank: 38,722,735,834.48 Total Points: 38,723,029,037.27 Donate Rep Power: 21474860	a lose-lose situation So, this guy was like "ya I can't continue to talk to her anymore because I can't take a girl serious who does that on the first night.." And this other dude basically stopped talking to this one chick who just wanted to chill and talk upon their first meeting. Y'all dudes stay confusing me. __________________ Being powerful is like being a lady. ..If you have to tell people you are, you aren't.

01-14-2009, 07:39 PM	#2 (permalink)
ogologo Registered User Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Warehouse 13 Posts: 12,537 Points: 360,280.00 Bank: 814,098,279.52 Total Points: 814,458,559.52 Donate Blog Entries: 1 Rep Power: 21474883	so how's dis a lose-lose situation again? __________________

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SweetAma Super Woman Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 8,328 Points: 293,202.79 Bank: 38,722,735,834.48 Total Points: 38,723,029,037.27 Donate Rep Power: 21474860	i hope you're being sarcastic __________________ Being powerful is like being a lady. ..If you have to tell people you are, you aren't.

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