Questions about Marriage & Naija Culture - What's the norm? - Page 9

naija_pikin · 05-08-2009, 06:17 PM

Not necessarily.

Oikini · 12-03-2009, 10:49 PM

Any forumers got experience with dating/marrying non-naija, esp. oyinbo people, cos most 9ja mothers go 'crazy' if they see you dating one, not talk of mentioning anything about marrying one, even if she is 'good'. I have seen some more 'African' than many 9ja abroad, in terms of actions/attitude etc and seen many 9ja women acting more 'white' than the white themselves...haha.

What's your view??

Asabi · 02-09-2010, 11:15 PM

Question please. Is it compulsory for the future bride to associate with the future brother inlaw's wife and family members? Does her family and the wife's family have to get along and be all buddy buddy?

BBabe · 01-08-2012, 02:20 PM

No

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Originally Posted by Asabi

Question please. Is it compulsory for the future bride to associate with the future brother inlaw's wife and family members? Does her family and the wife's family have to get along and be all buddy buddy?

monblaze · 01-09-2012, 08:07 PM

Asabi and BBabe... No, but it will be better
especially for you... if there is tension na you as wife go suffer am
you are relatively immune tho if you are living far away in different states or countries...

Marriage is not just between two people but 2 amilies, backgrounds, philosophies etc...

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Oikini Registered User Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 1 Points: 910.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 910.00 Donate Rep Power: 0	Cross-cultural... Any forumers got experience with dating/marrying non-naija, esp. oyinbo people, cos most 9ja mothers go 'crazy' if they see you dating one, not talk of mentioning anything about marrying one, even if she is 'good'. I have seen some more 'African' than many 9ja abroad, in terms of actions/attitude etc and seen many 9ja women acting more 'white' than the white themselves...haha. What's your view?? Last edited by Oikini; 01-14-2010 at 03:09 PM..

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monblaze Registered User Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Lagos! Posts: 4,326 Points: 25,079.25 Bank: 762,134.91 Total Points: 787,214.16 Donate Rep Power: 21368018	Asabi and BBabe... No, but it will be better especially for you... if there is tension na you as wife go suffer am you are relatively immune tho if you are living far away in different states or countries... Marriage is not just between two people but 2 amilies, backgrounds, philosophies etc... __________________ @monblaze StillBaby of NR #OccupyNigeria, its your country, take it into your own hands... Lol, i crack me up!!! http://www.naijaryders.com/forums/24...-proposed.html

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