Still In Love with my ex

Taurus · 08-11-2008, 05:51 PM

I broke up with him about a month ago, we both came to that decision, more like he innitiated it.I was cool with this, the break up was treating me fine untill a week ago.

He has started calling me or emailing me daily, and we are very friendly to each other.One Saturday he invited me over his house for a party.I took my friend with and we had a great time.The atmosphere was very nice, and it was a great crowd.

It was the first time after the break up that I had seen my ex.We acted very civil towards each other at first, and as the evening progressed, he was giving me a lot of attention.There was a girl there that he had invited, I think she likes him a lot, and innitially I thought that was his new girlfriend, but as time went on, he was concetrating on me a lot, and this annoyed this chick a bit even if she tried not to show it.

The point is, I had accepted that we are over, but I know that we still love each other.None of us want to come out and say, or maybe its all in my head.

just thought I should at least tell some

mekistein · 08-11-2008, 06:19 PM

yea kip dreaming or wishing...u still like him

**Nene** · 08-12-2008, 12:40 AM

y did y'all break up ?

**manilah** · 08-12-2008, 12:50 AM

naija_pikin · 08-12-2008, 05:59 AM

Eyya, pele..that's the worst. All I can advise you to do is to keep in mind the reasons why you are currently not together, because chances are that history will repeat itself if you go for it again. Unless of course you both plan to address all issues, and both parties make an effort to change things for the better.

African Athena · 08-14-2008, 11:53 AM

You need to distance yourself from him for your own good. Right now he seems to be bloody having his cake and eating it.

Boss · 08-15-2008, 02:48 PM

...and the reason for the breakup was?

Efizzybaby · 08-15-2008, 04:28 PM

The koko was good...

*DiamOnd* · 08-30-2008, 01:32 AM

How do you guys stay friends with your exs? seriously
get away from dude as far as possible. its the only way to get over him. keep reminding urself why u broke up..keep urself busy and find new dick
u would 4get about him in no time

bijou · 09-01-2008, 09:32 PM

now someone's speaking my language. GO and find someone else!!! i tell there are big fishes out there loads of them. forget the he's the one crap, there is no such as THE ONE. so, go find yourself a nice guy or....... WELCOME TO CLUB SINGLETON!!!!

**Floresse8501** · 09-02-2008, 02:13 AM

Its all in your head baby...there is alot of love out there, just got 2 find your right fit...wink!

bijou · 09-04-2008, 12:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Floresse8501

Its all in your head baby...there is alot of love out there, just got 2 find your right fit...wink!

so are the fishes in my head as well?? no tell me oh!

Pookie! · 09-07-2008, 01:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Taurus

I broke up with him about a month ago, we both came to that decision, more like he innitiated it.I was cool with this, the break up was treating me fine untill a week ago.

He has started calling me or emailing me daily, and we are very friendly to each other.One Saturday he invited me over his house for a party.I took my friend with and we had a great time.The atmosphere was very nice, and it was a great crowd.

It was the first time after the break up that I had seen my ex.We acted very civil towards each other at first, and as the evening progressed, he was giving me a lot of attention.There was a girl there that he had invited, I think she likes him a lot, and innitially I thought that was his new girlfriend, but as time went on, he was concetrating on me a lot, and this annoyed this chick a bit even if she tried not to show it.

The point is, I had accepted that we are over, but I know that we still love each other.None of us want to come out and say, or maybe its all in my head.

just thought I should at least tell some

No one is irriplaceable...wot does ur gutt tell you?!

Hardcore · 09-28-2008, 10:32 AM

Would not feel too flattered if I were you. Experience will soon show that men will always come back for one thing. . . . . which they miss since one is never enough.

If you are in the mood fine, if not move on. This has nothing to do with love.

A man that invited you to a party with another lady there to give you more attention?

He must be a stud muffin.

My 2 shillings.

Hardcore · 09-28-2008, 10:36 AM

Would not feel too flattered if I were you. Experience will soon show that men will always come back for one thing. . . . . which they miss since one is never enough.

If you are in the mood fine, if not move on. This has nothing to do with love.

A man that invited you to a party with another lady there to give you more attention? A playa playa with no respect for himself or the desparate ladies around him.

He must be a stud muffin. Please respect yourself. I know men outnumber women like 50 to 1. But we do not have to deceive ourselves that we are special. If you want to sleep with him for old times sake, please do so and get it out of your systems. Nothing special here I say, even if you guys were married. Emotions are for the moment and very fleeting and dynamic.

My 2 shillings.

08-11-2008, 05:51 PM	#1 (permalink)
Taurus Registered User Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: why should I tell u Posts: 16 Points: 3,031.45 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 3,031.45 Donate Rep Power: 0	Still In Love with my ex I broke up with him about a month ago, we both came to that decision, more like he innitiated it.I was cool with this, the break up was treating me fine untill a week ago. He has started calling me or emailing me daily, and we are very friendly to each other.One Saturday he invited me over his house for a party.I took my friend with and we had a great time.The atmosphere was very nice, and it was a great crowd. It was the first time after the break up that I had seen my ex.We acted very civil towards each other at first, and as the evening progressed, he was giving me a lot of attention.There was a girl there that he had invited, I think she likes him a lot, and innitially I thought that was his new girlfriend, but as time went on, he was concetrating on me a lot, and this annoyed this chick a bit even if she tried not to show it. The point is, I had accepted that we are over, but I know that we still love each other.None of us want to come out and say, or maybe its all in my head. just thought I should at least tell some

08-11-2008, 06:19 PM	#2 (permalink)
mekistein Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Abuja Posts: 302 Points: 2,400.00 Bank: 5,199,345,423.54 Total Points: 5,199,347,823.54 Donate Rep Power: 1341754	yea kip dreaming or wishing...u still like him __________________

08-12-2008, 12:40 AM	#3 (permalink)
Nene Elder Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: where u least expect Posts: 12,139 Points: 20,018.20 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 20,018.20 Donate Rep Power: 1567154	y did y'all break up ? __________________ uncool list : cool list: Dele,Tayo I JUST BELIEVE YOU HAVE TO TAKE LIFE BY THE REINS, AND ACT LIKE YOU MEAN BUSINESS

08-14-2008, 11:53 AM	#6 (permalink)
African Athena Voodoo Child ROTQ Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: On the way to Ithaca...may my journey be long... Posts: 18,337 Points: 5,530.00 Bank: 4,379,250,310.37 Total Points: 4,379,255,840.37 Donate Rep Power: 21474889	You need to distance yourself from him for your own good. Right now he seems to be bloody having his cake and eating it. __________________ Omne Ignotum Pro Magnifico "Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same"

08-15-2008, 02:48 PM	#7 (permalink)
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08-12-2008, 05:59 AM	#5 (permalink)
naija_pikin Femme Fatale Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Dans tes rêves Posts: 29,829 Points: 0.00 Bank: 435,356,590,800.55 Total Points: 435,356,590,800.55 Donate Rep Power: 21474915	Eyya, pele..that's the worst. All I can advise you to do is to keep in mind the reasons why you are currently not together, because chances are that history will repeat itself if you go for it again. Unless of course you both plan to address all issues, and both parties make an effort to change things for the better.

09-01-2008, 09:32 PM	#10 (permalink)
bijou Registered User Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 32 Points: 4,301.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 4,301.00 Donate Rep Power: 0	now someone's speaking my language. GO and find someone else!!! i tell there are big fishes out there loads of them. forget the he's the one crap, there is no such as THE ONE. so, go find yourself a nice guy or....... WELCOME TO CLUB SINGLETON!!!!

09-02-2008, 02:13 AM	#11 (permalink)
Floresse8501 NGBC Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: United States of Acirema Posts: 1,396 Points: 11,529.32 Bank: 9,347,656.11 Total Points: 9,359,185.43 Donate Rep Power: 21474847	Its all in your head baby...there is alot of love out there, just got 2 find your right fit...wink! __________________ "ok anything u can cook jare whether na stew, eguisi or ogbono or your fancy pastries"

09-28-2008, 10:32 AM	#14 (permalink)
Hardcore Registered User Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 37 Points: 2,203.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 2,203.00 Donate Rep Power: 0	Would not feel too flattered if I were you. Experience will soon show that men will always come back for one thing. . . . . which they miss since one is never enough. If you are in the mood fine, if not move on. This has nothing to do with love. A man that invited you to a party with another lady there to give you more attention? He must be a stud muffin. My 2 shillings.

09-28-2008, 10:36 AM	#15 (permalink)
Hardcore Registered User Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 37 Points: 2,203.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 2,203.00 Donate Rep Power: 0	Would not feel too flattered if I were you. Experience will soon show that men will always come back for one thing. . . . . which they miss since one is never enough. If you are in the mood fine, if not move on. This has nothing to do with love. A man that invited you to a party with another lady there to give you more attention? A playa playa with no respect for himself or the desparate ladies around him. He must be a stud muffin. Please respect yourself. I know men outnumber women like 50 to 1. But we do not have to deceive ourselves that we are special. If you want to sleep with him for old times sake, please do so and get it out of your systems. Nothing special here I say, even if you guys were married. Emotions are for the moment and very fleeting and dynamic. My 2 shillings.

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