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08-04-2008, 07:03 PM
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i think everybody forms their own idea about what love is unless u look to the Bible for the God definition. I think I love most ppl as a human being
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08-10-2008, 04:58 PM
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In my own words:
I will say love is a difficult realization that som1/smtin other than one'self is real.Yea,there's somthing called love but most times its mistaken for other things.
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08-11-2008, 06:40 AM
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Not love...tolerance.
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08-11-2008, 02:30 PM
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Yes there is but rare.
That most men have intentions of invading the female nation to spread their democracy shldnt host u in the circles of disbelief. There is always a thing called love and it exists. |
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08-24-2008, 08:10 PM
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08-29-2008, 05:33 PM
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God is love...
God is love! And yes it very much exist, because God exist.
The truth is human beings, no matter who we are, are always going to be seeking for love, from one or one medium or the other, because God had created us to be a relational being. There will always be that craving, that deep longing in our hearts to be loved. However, what we fail to understand, is that the love, the fulfilment that we seek, we can only find and receive from God, because He made us, He made us to complete us, and we can only have/find that completion (i.e. fulfilment) in Him. He is suppose to fill the void in you. Other relationships of course falls in to it. We all have relationships with each other, and this kind of love between each of us - parents to child, siblings to siblings, friend to friend, and husband to wife, all this flows from relationship, the relationship that we have in God. What you do not have, you cannot give away. If you are not filled, how can you pour out? Some of us seek to be filled, but we are going about the wrong places, we expect that man or woman, that person to fill us, when in actual fact, it is God we need or require first, and every other thing can follow. And some of us sometimes try to give, but then we find that it usually leads no where, because we are running on empty...what we really havent got in full, we are trying to give out. Eventually in such cases, what happens is that we become drained... another effort/impact waisted. Does love exist? Yes. Can you find it or experience it? Yes, in God. "Seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these other things would be added unto you." Matthew 6:33 Quote:
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08-29-2008, 05:41 PM
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The question is does it 9love) really exist? I said yes. And the next question might be I presume, how can I find it? In God...... That is just the foundational understanding one needs to have, and then we can move on from there on to, how do I get a partner, can i or would i really meet someone to love or share things with etc... which could be what the person is really talking about here.
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~ If it ever looks like the whole world does not care, I know someone who cares: God cares! I am only human, but even I care! He [God] never changes, His love for you never dies down! A man may walk away from you, But God never leaves you! So even when you feel at your lowest, remember He cares! ~ - Hazaq |
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08-29-2008, 05:50 PM
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Okay all I have mentioned above is REAL LOVE!!!!!!!! "Hollywood love" as you put it, is simply "hollywood"... in reality, love is not as displayed on television..... LOVE is sacrifice.... wanting the best for the other person to the degree you may have to deny them something they want that might not neccesarily be good for them, because u love them. That is real love. Hollywood sometimes makes love all about "feelings"...however wisdom is also required
Love is kind... feelings wont help u in those times u dont feel like being kind Love is patient....feelings wont cut it when the other person doesnt quite look like they are on the same page as you Love is not jealous ... i rest my case.... Love is not boastful/proud... how many people have you felt u r just better than? u are worth much more than them? Even spouses do it to each other, i make you, without me you are nothing etc...i rest my case Love is not rude... how was your tone the last time u spoke to he/her? Love is not irritable, and keeps not record of wrong.. i rest my case. how easily angered/irritable were u when he/she spoke to u a particular way? And are you constantly reminding him/her what he/she did to u last time...? Love never gives up, never loses faith, always hopeful, endures through circumstances: Have you given up on him or her (marriage scenario) just bcoz they are not cutting it right now, do u believe they cannot change, they cannot be better than this? Have you given up on them to the degree you have stopped helping them, encouraging them through those tough times they are going through? He doesnt quite have a job @ the moment, have you given up on him coz he lost his job? That dream is not quite happening, this was the kind of home he said he would make for you, have you given up on him? Are you faithful? Love does not rejoice about injustice, but rejoices in truth: The last time you had the disagreement, who really was in the right? Did you accept your faults? Did you admit you were wrong? Or did you hold on to the lie, and made him/her live in false belief? Or when they are doing something clearly wrong or about to, do you encourage them, and back them up, or do you seek for the truth/encourage them in the truth? Are u tune in to truth or lie/injustice/deceit etc.. - 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (New living) Quote:
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~ If it ever looks like the whole world does not care, I know someone who cares: God cares! I am only human, but even I care! He [God] never changes, His love for you never dies down! A man may walk away from you, But God never leaves you! So even when you feel at your lowest, remember He cares! ~ - Hazaq Last edited by Hazaq; 08-29-2008 at 06:46 PM.. |
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