How come I have never been in love?

Ewa · 07-23-2008, 09:35 AM

I don't know, but I have never felt that love thing. Maybe I will get there someday but sometimes I doubt it. It is so easy for me to let someone go as soon as they do something I don't like. There has never been any type of extreme emotional entanglement that won't let me let that person go easily. Am I a cold person? And when and hopefully I do fall in love, how do I know, cause I swear...I don't have these crazy feelings...

naija_pikin · 07-23-2008, 10:14 AM

Don't believe the hype - "love" is not something that everyone experiences at least 10 times in their lives.

I used to doubt the possibility that I'd ever be in love as well.. but I came close enough once. I did ask myself if it was because I was cold.. but that's not it at all. I can be, but the moment I get involved with someone, I let my vulnerable side shine through. Like yourself, however, it's [usually] quite easy for me to let go when I'm not feeling certain things, and I've made the fact known, to no avail.

Boss · 07-23-2008, 05:54 PM

no be by force to fall in love

**Floresse8501** · 07-23-2008, 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Ewa

I don't know, but I have never felt that love thing. Maybe I will get there someday but sometimes I doubt it. It is so easy for me to let someone go as soon as they do something I don't like. There has never been any type of extreme emotional entanglement that won't let me let that person go easily. Am I a cold person? And when and hopefully I do fall in love, how do I know, cause I swear...I don't have these crazy feelings...

Just meet me and u'd know what love ia about
@NP...hello darling

naija_pikin · 07-23-2008, 07:14 PM

Hey, sweets. How goes it?

**Nene** · 07-23-2008, 10:34 PM

do u have a hard time trusting ppl ?

Ewa · 07-24-2008, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Nene

do u have a hard time trusting ppl ?

Yes I sort of do, I just don't fully believe any sweet nonsense or what anyone has to say, I take it with a grain of salt and wait for them to do something stupid, then I feel validated and say well....'I knew it was too good to be true'

Ewa · 07-24-2008, 12:13 AM

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Originally Posted by naija_pikin

Don't believe the hype - "love" is not something that everyone experiences at least 10 times in their lives.

I used to doubt the possibility that I'd ever be in love as well.. but I came close enough once. I did ask myself if it was because I was cold.. but that's not it at all. I can be, but the moment I get involved with someone, I let my vulnerable side shine through. Like yourself, however, it's [usually] quite easy for me to let go when I'm not feeling certain things, and I've made the fact known, to no avail.

I feel you, me I'm just waiting to fall in love once at least.

Ewa · 07-24-2008, 12:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Floresse8501

Just meet me and u'd know what love ia about
@NP...hello darling

For real?

naija_pikin · 07-24-2008, 01:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Ewa

I feel you, me I'm just waiting to fall in love once at least.

So am I...but I'm no longer in any kind of rush. I don't even know if it's worth it sef - let's leave that for the time around which I'm ready to settle down for real, for real.

**harcourtgrl** · 07-24-2008, 01:20 AM

how old r u?

Ewa · 07-24-2008, 01:45 AM

Early twenties

I know I'm still young shey, so I have time. I just fear that with the way im going you know

BlueBeauty · 07-24-2008, 03:20 AM

gosh girl you are still young. please enjoy & have fun. falling in love too early may result in having a heart break so early in life too. not such a good thing. so enjoy life girl & only ponder about not falling in love in your 50's.

**Floresse8501** · 07-24-2008, 03:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Ewa

Early twenties

I know I'm still young shey, so I have time. I just fear that with the way im going you know

On the contrary dear u have no time men are scarce, so u better go 4 therapy and catch your man now..abi u want to wait until ya 30?

**Omosewa** · 07-24-2008, 06:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Floresse8501

On the contrary dear u have no time men are scarce, so u better go 4 therapy and catch your man now..abi u want to wait until ya 30?

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Ewa Registered User Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 53 Points: 4,293.10 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 4,293.10 Donate Rep Power: 0	Early twenties I know I'm still young shey, so I have time. I just fear that with the way im going you know

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