I just want some advise about something.

**Rarity** · 09-17-2002, 07:32 PM

Well, If you're feeling a guy like damn! And you know he's feeling you too. You talk to the guy and see him everyday in school but the nigga ain't making no moves, what's up with that? Also the nigga ain't even being straightforward with a sista about what he wants like a relationship, or just kicking it. I'm not sure about what i want. I am really mixed up right now. I just want a little bit of advise and please don't clown.

ndi_amaka · 09-17-2002, 07:35 PM

How do you know he's feeling you?? Don't take his friendliness as a sign that he's interested. Some guys are strictly into kickin' back with a girl friend (not girlfriend).

Naive · 09-17-2002, 07:38 PM

Why not try to be friends and know each other before going into a relationship. Like you knowing who he is and him knowing who you are. Besides this, you need to know yourself and what you want.

**Adelicious** · 09-17-2002, 07:50 PM

wow this is a tough one, well you have to see if the guy is feeling in that kind of way, ask one of his friends, he might probably know something, and if you can't find out anything, why don't you make the first move, and see what happens.

Bold&Beautiful · 09-17-2002, 07:56 PM

be vocal. ask him questions. it might not be direct but phrase the questions in ways that'll help u achieve ur goal. if u find that he is feeling u then holla and see wahts' up. at least that way u'll know where u stand as opposed to being in the dark. but u know they say i'm outspoken so this might not be the right approach for u. but bascially ask his friends, if they don't know then ask him.

Giftiek8 · 09-17-2002, 10:13 PM

First and Foremost: figure out what it is you want in general and then specifically from DUDE. How can you even be interested in learning what DUDE wants if you have no clue what you want?

Second: make sure DUDE's really feeling you. Don't mistake kindness for affection. At this point the subtle interrogation of DUDE can begin.

**money talk** · 09-18-2002, 07:51 AM

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Originally posted by Sexy Angel
Well, If you're feeling a guy like damn! And you know he's feeling you too. You talk to the guy and see him everyday in school but the nigga ain't making no moves, what's up with that? Also the nigga ain't even being straightforward with a sista about what he wants like a relationship, or just kicking it. I'm not sure about what i want. I am really mixed up right now. I just want a little bit of advise and please don't clown.

Hey ma,
Who is the guy o? i will tell my brother T o, p.m me okay.

Baba Iyanu · 09-18-2002, 01:04 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sexy Angel
Well, If you're feeling a guy like damn! And you know he's feeling you too. You talk to the guy and see him everyday in school but the nigga ain't making no moves, what's up with that? Also the nigga ain't even being straightforward with a sista about what he wants like a relationship, or just kicking it. I'm not sure about what i want. I am really mixed up right now. I just want a little bit of advise and please don't clown.

report am to hin mama say na gay..

**Rarity** · 09-18-2002, 05:55 PM

I am not
mistaking the dude's kindness for anything. I mean i know he wants me but i just don't know why he's acting stupid. Also, we are friends. We've been friends. All i know is i want to be with him. I really feel for him. I mean he's a standup brother, smart, hot and very sweet to me. He made a move the other day, but i pushed him away but i think it might have scared him that i'm not feeling him.
Thanks y'all

**Rarity** · 09-18-2002, 05:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by money talk

Hey ma,
Who is the guy o? i will tell my brother T o, p.m me okay.

You know u ma girl now, but i'm still keeping that on the D.L. I'ma holla at you, you know. He goes to ma school.

**Rarity** · 09-18-2002, 05:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Bold&Beautiful
be vocal. ask him questions. it might not be direct but phrase the questions in ways that'll help u achieve ur goal. if u find that he is feeling u then holla and see wahts' up. at least that way u'll know where u stand as opposed to being in the dark. but u know they say i'm outspoken so this might not be the right approach for u. but bascially ask his friends, if they don't know then ask him.

You give really good advise, thanks. I think i'll do what you advised me about.
But i'm not good with expressing ma feelings like that.

**mc-fine** · 09-18-2002, 05:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sexy Angel
He made a move the other day, but i pushed him away but i think it might have scared him that i'm not feeling him.

*sends SexyAngel an e-slap*

Ok wtf did you do that for? and ur wondering why the guy is not trying anything.

*sigh* women.....

**AK1** · 09-18-2002, 06:01 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by mc-fine

*sends SexyAngel an e-slap*

Ok wtf did you do that for? and ur wondering why the guy is not trying anything.

*sigh* women.....

SHARRAPPPPPPPPP

**AK1** · 09-18-2002, 06:05 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Baba Iyanu

report am to hin mama say na gay..

then persin need to report u to ya mama....i don dey try get ya attention but u neva show me face

baba iyanu kilo shelee(is that right)

ndi_amaka · 09-18-2002, 06:06 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AK1

SHARRAPPPPPPPPP

he's got a point...........

09-17-2002, 07:32 PM	#1 (permalink)
Rarity ~Lyric~ Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: HERMOSA BEACH Posts: 4,851 Points: 26.90 Bank: 7,038.06 Total Points: 7,064.96 Donate Rep Power: 293972	I just want some advise about something. Well, If you're feeling a guy like damn! And you know he's feeling you too. You talk to the guy and see him everyday in school but the nigga ain't making no moves, what's up with that? Also the nigga ain't even being straightforward with a sista about what he wants like a relationship, or just kicking it. I'm not sure about what i want. I am really mixed up right now. I just want a little bit of advise and please don't clown.

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Adelicious Elder Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Fighting the good fight of faith. Posts: 3,184 Points: 39.00 Bank: 17,123.64 Total Points: 17,162.64 Donate Rep Power: 0	wow this is a tough one, well you have to see if the guy is feeling in that kind of way, ask one of his friends, he might probably know something, and if you can't find out anything, why don't you make the first move, and see what happens. __________________ Eat Shit "it’s not the circumstances that determine who you're gonna be, but how you deal with these problems and pains that come your way. it’s for you that i pray with hope for a brighter day and so i say, your deliverance is coming" Matt Kearney

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Bold&Beautiful Registered User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: north kakalaka Posts: 1,241 Points: 29.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 29.00 Donate Rep Power: 23	be vocal. ask him questions. it might not be direct but phrase the questions in ways that'll help u achieve ur goal. if u find that he is feeling u then holla and see wahts' up. at least that way u'll know where u stand as opposed to being in the dark. but u know they say i'm outspoken so this might not be the right approach for u. but bascially ask his friends, if they don't know then ask him. __________________ Business goes where it is invited and stays where it is appreciated!

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Rarity ~Lyric~ Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: HERMOSA BEACH Posts: 4,851 Points: 26.90 Bank: 7,038.06 Total Points: 7,064.96 Donate Rep Power: 293972	Well, I am not mistaking the dude's kindness for anything. I mean i know he wants me but i just don't know why he's acting stupid. Also, we are friends. We've been friends. All i know is i want to be with him. I really feel for him. I mean he's a standup brother, smart, hot and very sweet to me. He made a move the other day, but i pushed him away but i think it might have scared him that i'm not feeling him. Thanks y'all

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Naive Registered User Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 298 Points: 272.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 272.00 Donate Rep Power: 22	Why not try to be friends and know each other before going into a relationship. Like you knowing who he is and him knowing who you are. Besides this, you need to know yourself and what you want.

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Giftiek8 Registered User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: TreasureIsland Posts: 319 Points: 207.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 207.00 Donate Rep Power: 20	First and Foremost: figure out what it is you want in general and then specifically from DUDE. How can you even be interested in learning what DUDE wants if you have no clue what you want? Second: make sure DUDE's really feeling you. Don't mistake kindness for affection. At this point the subtle interrogation of DUDE can begin.

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