Unserious Guy wanting to be serious

**Pastor Bros** · 05-02-2008, 08:00 AM

OK, so I went to go visit my cousin and some of his friends came in and we were all talking about a bunch of stuff. Suddenly, one of my cousin's friends received a phone call and excused us and came back some 30 minutes later looking all solemn. He told us the situation.

He said that his friend's brother in law is an unserious guy. He is never serious about any relationships and always wants to play. He met this serious looking girl, career on track, mid 20s and all. So as usual, he wanted to play with her. Anyways, as he started to get to know her more and more he started to like her and wanted to get serious. He then tells the girl and she then tells him that she doesn't want anything serious.

Now this is his dilemma, now that he is in serious mode, should he leave her alone n pursue serious interests? Should he just be unserious with her and hope she turns serious? Should he put pressure on her and risk her leaving him? Consider the fact that he is in his mid 30s and it's about time he settles down.

NR help as I promised to intervene and provide solid advise for his predicament.

**Eraser** · 05-02-2008, 12:41 PM

karma !!!!!!!!!!

...dee!! · 05-02-2008, 02:18 PM

he should look for the nearest lake cos its payback time....

now seriuosly, i think he should pursue it a little further, eventually, all ladies wanna settle down, some just need a little push, so he should pursue it a little further, if he sees she is leavin him, he can relax a little and start again later....

pynkspyce · 05-02-2008, 05:00 PM

false. Dude should count his losses, and move along, or he can wait around, and if he gets burnt further, then take the blame and move along.

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Originally Posted by ...dee!!

he should look for the nearest lake cos its payback time....

now seriuosly, i think he should pursue it a little further, eventually, all ladies wanna settle down, some just need a little push, so he should pursue it a little further, if he sees she is leavin him, he can relax a little and start again later....

**Pastor Bros** · 05-02-2008, 09:12 PM

Maybe na karma but it can turn around if he hangs in longer but he is getting old ....... I don't think he got that time.

Smurfelina · 05-03-2008, 12:51 AM

he's getting kinda desperate huh? 3ha
He should spend some time courting her. Be nice, give her about 2-3 years to come around, love her for not being like the girls who fell head over heels for his games and then...hope she crushes his heart by dumping him and getting married to that other guy she had been dating all along.

...dee!! · 05-03-2008, 01:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Smurfelina

he's getting kinda desperate huh? 3ha
He should spend some time courting her. Be nice, give her about 2-3 years to come around, love her for not being like the girls who fell head over heels for his games and then...hope she crushes his heart by dumping him and getting married to that other guy she had been dating all along.

BRILLIANT

Nappy Chick · 05-03-2008, 01:34 AM

Maybe he's serious because she isn't. I mean, it's something folks do, they start wanting that which they cannot have. Maybe he's used to having women throw themselves at him and now that this one no gree give am face, e don turn serious... I'm just saying

Mid 30's and na now e wan settle

Igbo men sha

Tell him to go to village and get someone

eby187 · 05-03-2008, 05:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Nappy Chick

Maybe he's serious because she isn't. I mean, it's something folks do, they start wanting that which they cannot have. Maybe he's used to having women throw themselves at him and now that this one no gree give am face, e don turn serious... I'm just saying

Mid 30's and na now e wan settle

Igbo men sha

Tell him to go to village and get someone

lol...u aint neva lied!

La Reine · 05-03-2008, 08:09 AM

If he wants to be serious he should go for older women.

I mean, a mid-twenties woman with everything going for her won't exactly be in a hurry to settle, much less with a mid-thirties man.

**Pastor Bros** · 05-16-2008, 11:11 PM

Chei..........u guys are good. Una don break d thing down wellllllllllllll

aolise1981 · 05-18-2008, 01:16 AM

I think he should maintain that relationship with her especially since she was honest about what she was interested in. Eventually she will come around.

Anwuli

NNE1 · 05-20-2008, 04:51 AM

I know a couple of guys who are married now who were like that sha

**kai** · 05-24-2008, 08:31 AM

case of wanting what you can't have. Because somehow he thinks she has more value than the other girls that fall easily. She's more of a challenge.

Rotimi · 05-24-2008, 10:14 AM

Guy shld take it as he sees it.....

1. wtf? dude is mid 30s and still lurking? damn.....na wa for bro

2. go along with the babe for bout 3 months.....see what happens.......

After that.....

3. Babe prob won't come around....don't waste ur time......time aint on ur side......

05-02-2008, 08:00 AM	#1 (permalink)
Pastor Bros The Governor Join Date: Jul 2000 Posts: 12,335 Points: 187,025.60 Bank: 11,196,396,209.41 Total Points: 11,196,583,235.01 Donate Rep Power: 2470000000	Unserious Guy wanting to be serious OK, so I went to go visit my cousin and some of his friends came in and we were all talking about a bunch of stuff. Suddenly, one of my cousin's friends received a phone call and excused us and came back some 30 minutes later looking all solemn. He told us the situation. He said that his friend's brother in law is an unserious guy. He is never serious about any relationships and always wants to play. He met this serious looking girl, career on track, mid 20s and all. So as usual, he wanted to play with her. Anyways, as he started to get to know her more and more he started to like her and wanted to get serious. He then tells the girl and she then tells him that she doesn't want anything serious. Now this is his dilemma, now that he is in serious mode, should he leave her alone n pursue serious interests? Should he just be unserious with her and hope she turns serious? Should he put pressure on her and risk her leaving him? Consider the fact that he is in his mid 30s and it's about time he settles down. NR help as I promised to intervene and provide solid advise for his predicament.

05-02-2008, 12:41 PM	#2 (permalink)
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05-02-2008, 02:18 PM	#3 (permalink)
...dee!! deAssasin Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: @lantis Posts: 1,655 Points: 6,594.00 Bank: 6,974,837,076.61 Total Points: 6,974,843,670.61 Donate Rep Power: 21474848	... he should look for the nearest lake cos its payback time.... now seriuosly, i think he should pursue it a little further, eventually, all ladies wanna settle down, some just need a little push, so he should pursue it a little further, if he sees she is leavin him, he can relax a little and start again later.... __________________ Have courage for the great sorrows of life and patience for the small ones; and when you have laboriously accomplished your daily task, go to sleep in peace. God is awake

05-18-2008, 01:16 AM	#12 (permalink)
aolise1981 Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 3 Points: 1,062.75 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 1,062.75 Donate Rep Power: 0	Unserious guy I think he should maintain that relationship with her especially since she was honest about what she was interested in. Eventually she will come around. Anwuli

05-20-2008, 04:51 AM	#13 (permalink)
NNE1 1 to Infinity Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: finding my heart Posts: 8,134 Points: 3,070.50 Bank: 424,236.68 Total Points: 427,307.18 Donate Rep Power: 3140065	I know a couple of guys who are married now who were like that sha __________________ Gombaru (fight to the end)-Japanese proverb I ruff Chimaobi QUOTE]Originally posted by Christ *I've done my bit, but I need these clowns to meet me halfway!* /QUOTE] nne1 appreciates all gedem ryders

05-02-2008, 09:12 PM	#5 (permalink)
Pastor Bros The Governor Join Date: Jul 2000 Posts: 12,335 Points: 187,025.60 Bank: 11,196,396,209.41 Total Points: 11,196,583,235.01 Donate Rep Power: 2470000000	Maybe na karma but it can turn around if he hangs in longer but he is getting old ....... I don't think he got that time.

05-03-2008, 12:51 AM	#6 (permalink)
Smurfelina Registered User Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Mushroom Village Posts: 2,514 Points: 300.17 Bank: 4,148,959,092.23 Total Points: 4,148,959,392.40 Donate Rep Power: 21474851	he's getting kinda desperate huh? 3ha He should spend some time courting her. Be nice, give her about 2-3 years to come around, love her for not being like the girls who fell head over heels for his games and then...hope she crushes his heart by dumping him and getting married to that other guy she had been dating all along.

05-03-2008, 01:34 AM	#8 (permalink)
Nappy Chick Registered User Join Date: May 2005 Location: N/A Posts: 8,443 Points: 13,159.70 Bank: 42,026.37 Total Points: 55,186.07 Donate Rep Power: 21474867	Maybe he's serious because she isn't. I mean, it's something folks do, they start wanting that which they cannot have. Maybe he's used to having women throw themselves at him and now that this one no gree give am face, e don turn serious... I'm just saying Mid 30's and na now e wan settle Igbo men sha Tell him to go to village and get someone

05-16-2008, 11:11 PM	#11 (permalink)
Pastor Bros The Governor Join Date: Jul 2000 Posts: 12,335 Points: 187,025.60 Bank: 11,196,396,209.41 Total Points: 11,196,583,235.01 Donate Rep Power: 2470000000	Chei..........u guys are good. Una don break d thing down wellllllllllllll

05-24-2008, 08:31 AM	#14 (permalink)
kai Elder Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: at your local crack depo.. Posts: 10,616 Points: 37,020.00 Bank: 294,290,475.73 Total Points: 294,327,495.73 Donate Rep Power: 21474875	case of wanting what you can't have. Because somehow he thinks she has more value than the other girls that fall easily. She's more of a challenge.

05-24-2008, 10:14 AM	#15 (permalink)
Rotimi Registered User Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Throwback tuntun Posts: 5,674 Points: 21,930.90 Bank: 666,871.24 Total Points: 688,802.14 Donate Rep Power: 5292729	Guy shld take it as he sees it..... 1. wtf? dude is mid 30s and still lurking? damn.....na wa for bro 2. go along with the babe for bout 3 months.....see what happens....... After that..... 3. Babe prob won't come around....don't waste ur time......time aint on ur side...... __________________ Motilo....

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