My Friend betrayed my trust by sleeping with my man..

**Lopez** · 01-28-2008, 09:33 AM

Wat shud yu do abt wat?

besides this is 08 is not a new thing anymore...yu're like the 6th or 7th person that has the same story that I know...gurls are gettin more desperate than ever and yu shud be ure own best friend by now cus its hard to find any out there. Pick urself up, dust off ure shoulders and go out there have some fun..its not worth the ache.

**Eraser** · 01-28-2008, 03:02 PM

friends, they do the strangest things, i wont even date a guy that asked my friend out in the past, even if they had nothing going on

Thalia Al Ghul · 01-28-2008, 06:14 PM

eyah..pele...MOVE ON!!!!

BlueBeauty · 01-28-2008, 06:16 PM

Sorry to hear it hurts so much, I certainly understand how you can feel even more hurt cause it was a fellow naija girl but gradually as you are, i'm beginning to learn that there are just some vicious people out there and being naija (or even Christian) does not add any more integrity or moral compass to their character.
Don't use this experience to result into despising women all together or feeling like you cant trust a naija girl as a friend the world consist of good & bad people, good & bad girls, good & bad Nigerians. Just keep in mind that there are callous people out there selfish and viscous and you gotta watch your back. There anit much you can do about what happened or even do to prevent it. Abi, What would you say about women whom their so called best friends sleep with or even snatch their husbands from them? Such is life. Moreover if the guy cared about you or your feelings, he would have said no to your friend.

Try to be strong; this to shall past & trust me there are other heart aches you are bound to live thru. what doesn't break you, makes you wiser and stronger.

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Originally Posted by preciouskitten8

Okay i need to vent. My once closest friend told me 2 days ago that she slept with a guy that i was currently seeing. It actually happened by accident, as we went out to have some drinks and she drunkily told me that she knew where all his tatoos where on his body. I was like, how the hell would you know where his tattoos where? she later told me that she slept with him after i had introduced them together to exchange furniture ( he was moving and needed to get rid of his furniture). Not up to one week of getting this guys number did she sleep with him. I feel completely betrayed, even before they met, my friend jokinly said "oh he sounds cute on the phone, can i sleep with him?" I was like, " hell no you cant!". Not to mention that according to him, she made the first move and drove to see him. Ive completely cut all ties with him and her, but what hurts the most is that she Is my fellow NAIJA sister, someone i would have considered a sister, friend, confidant!Every emotion i had for this man, she knew- how much i cared for him, loved him, the intimate times we shared. It hurts so much. Even all the while SHE WAS LIVING WITH HER BOYFRIEND..I need some advice quick..ladies whawt should i do??..

Boss · 01-28-2008, 06:45 PM

LOL...reminds me of this quote QC girls used to say..."Friends are Bad"

Asabi · 01-29-2008, 08:49 AM

lol...I guess he wanted to be snatched away. If he really cared about what you both had, he wouldn't do it, so thank God that he's been gotten rid of. I talk to a lot of my friends about my dudes, but I only talk much about the ones that I wouldn't mind losing. Like if I'm talking to someone/crush, I mean I don't care too much, good riddance to bad rubbishes. Lol...sometimes I even give away info on purpose to see what the 'friends' would do....
Awon oloshi Nigeria Ltd.....

Thalia Al Ghul · 01-29-2008, 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Asabi

lol...I guess he wanted to be snatched away. If he really cared about what you both had, he wouldn't do it, so thank God that he's been gotten rid of. I talk to a lot of my friends about my dudes, but I only talk much about the ones that I wouldn't mind losing. Like if I'm talking to someone/crush, I mean I don't care too much, good riddance to bad rubbishes. Lol...sometimes I even give away info on purpose to see what the 'friends' would do....
Awon oloshi Nigeria Ltd.....

minglemoon · 01-29-2008, 12:07 PM

how sad....but u shld be happy though...going down to brass tracks, it goes to show it jes wasnt the girls fault,the guy jacked up too...he also tells us he's got such tendencies...so if it doesnt happen now,it jes might be in the future and that will be extremely painful.

so occupy urself with things that will erase thots/memories about them and head on.he jes saved u the energy and time. Thankyou!

Lefty · 01-31-2008, 07:03 PM

u already cut them off, wat else is there to do?

naija_pikin · 02-05-2008, 05:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Lefty

u already cut them off, wat else is there to do?

Indeed. There isn't much else you can do, save for being vengeful, which is not worth your while.

ONELOVE-HEART · 02-07-2008, 01:55 AM

i have to say it again for yu ladies.... find your girl friend a man...ooo... on still she takes your own.... then your eye will open........ this is not the first, second time... and it will not be the last....

Uncle Sunday · 02-07-2008, 03:00 AM

I understand how you feel hurt but this is actually a blessing in disguise. Any man that will just sleep with the first thing that comes his way doesn't' deserve you. And I'm sorry to say that "friend" wasn't' a true friend. This is actually a blessing in disguise.

Don Brizio · 02-07-2008, 07:52 AM

yada yada yada....what u going on abt... if u still like the man marry him, just make sure u are ready to see ur friends as ur husbands mistresses. the way i see it, u got 2 options......stay with he guy and face more heartache....or come to me and get security.....jst kiddin....i kid with jst abt errthing.....let go...move on.....and for want of something sensitive albeit inappropriate to say...the world is yours.....ciao

Boss · 02-07-2008, 07:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Don Brizio

yada yada yada....what u going on abt... if u still like the man marry him, just make sure u are ready to see ur friends as ur husbands mistresses. the way i see it, u got 2 options......stay with he guy and face more heartache....or come to me and get security.....jst kiddin....i kid with jst abt errthing.....let go...move on.....and for want of something sensitive albeit inappropriate to say...the world is yours.....ciao

Umm...FYI for those who are quick to shoot...that up there is not me.

Just putting it out there.

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Asabi Registered User Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: somewhere... Posts: 568 Points: 36,092.40 Bank: 135,988.51 Total Points: 172,080.91 Donate Rep Power: 707230	lol...I guess he wanted to be snatched away. If he really cared about what you both had, he wouldn't do it, so thank God that he's been gotten rid of. I talk to a lot of my friends about my dudes, but I only talk much about the ones that I wouldn't mind losing. Like if I'm talking to someone/crush, I mean I don't care too much, good riddance to bad rubbishes. Lol...sometimes I even give away info on purpose to see what the 'friends' would do.... Awon oloshi Nigeria Ltd..... __________________ "Success is getting what you want....happiness is wanting what you get"- Warren Buffet

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minglemoon NR's wine Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: NR planet Posts: 3,244 Points: 78,973,797.70 Bank: 91,902,793.91 Total Points: 170,876,591.61 Donate Rep Power: 21474853	how sad....but u shld be happy though...going down to brass tracks, it goes to show it jes wasnt the girls fault,the guy jacked up too...he also tells us he's got such tendencies...so if it doesnt happen now,it jes might be in the future and that will be extremely painful. so occupy urself with things that will erase thots/memories about them and head on.he jes saved u the energy and time. Thankyou! __________________ To those whom i shoot,forgive the depths. oh ok...i mean. To those who get the horses' hoof,forgive the travel expenses. So long as u didnt tottally lose ur breaths, We can construct friendly sentences using simple future tenses. ..................jes the E-me.

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Don Brizio Registered User Join Date: May 2006 Location: at the moment... Posts: 61 Points: 5,211.96 Bank: 8,300.30 Total Points: 13,512.26 Donate Blog Entries: 2 Rep Power: 0	yada yada yada....what u going on abt... if u still like the man marry him, just make sure u are ready to see ur friends as ur husbands mistresses. the way i see it, u got 2 options......stay with he guy and face more heartache....or come to me and get security.....jst kiddin....i kid with jst abt errthing.....let go...move on.....and for want of something sensitive albeit inappropriate to say...the world is yours.....ciao __________________ ~D Foundation~ http://donbrizio.blogpot.com God have mercy on ma enemies......cos i won't

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