So What would you do?

*DiamOnd* · 01-13-2008, 08:55 PM

You have a best friend who broke up with her boyfriend 2 years ago. She has moved on and eveyrthing..you are friends with her ex boyfriend too..but lately you've been having feelings for him..or for each other. But you have that girl code now..u kno..dont d8 each others ex.
But you really think this guy is the one. He just might be. what will you do??

Boss · 01-13-2008, 08:59 PM

Depends on why they broke up.

If it was her fault, something like she cheated on him or something along her fault, I probably wont even have feelings for her and squash any feelings I have of dating her.

As for if it was just a simple case of both of them growing apart, once I used to believe in that code but now I'm like fuck it...there's no strings attached between both of u, I'm just dating her, not like she's ur daughter or ur ward or something. I'd just date her and either tell him or let him find out...probably let him find out.

Del · 01-13-2008, 09:20 PM

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Originally Posted by *DeLiLaH*

You have a best friend who broke up with her boyfriend 2 years ago. She has moved on and eveyrthing..you are friends with her ex boyfriend too..but lately you've been having feelings for him..or for each other. But you have that girl code now..u kno..dont d8 each others ex.
But you really think this guy is the one. He just might be. what will you do??

You gain a boyfriend and lose a friend... can't have both. Even if your girlfriend is cool with it, I'd imagine it would automatically strain the relationship you got with her. So, pick one. Dude or your friend.

**NARNIA** · 01-13-2008, 10:52 PM

Nah! not worth it unless u dont send ur friend!

KOFI · 01-14-2008, 02:15 AM

bang him and dispose........

*DiamOnd* · 02-19-2009, 12:38 AM

kofi..thats what a guy would do, am talkin about what would a female do? or should do? whats the right thing to do? is tehre a right/wrong?

Happyknot · 02-23-2009, 11:09 PM

There is no right or wrong. woody allen fell in love & married his adopted child and they are still happily together. like Del said u just have to pick one u r wiling to drop d guy or ur friend.

da_queen_bee · 02-23-2009, 11:19 PM

well depends on how much of a friend she is too you, if she's more of an acquaintance than like an actual friend then girl u do your thing. Otherwise, leave the guy alone jare; guys come and go but good friends are hard to find.

then again, it could be just a physical attraction, in that case just gbensh the guy on the low and have an agreement not to tell anybody, i'm sure he won't mind and ur girl never gets to find out so everyone is happy.

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KOFI Registered User Join Date: May 2003 Location: Ghana/Lagos and Canada Posts: 278 Points: 17,749.65 Bank: 84,668.63 Total Points: 102,418.28 Donate Rep Power: 328356	bang him and dispose........ __________________ No condition is permanent in this world

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Happyknot Registered User Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 2,177 Points: 24,070.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 24,070.00 Donate Rep Power: 2022689	There is no right or wrong. woody allen fell in love & married his adopted child and they are still happily together. like Del said u just have to pick one u r wiling to drop d guy or ur friend. __________________ I am blessed, with so much more than I deserve.

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da_queen_bee Registered User Join Date: May 2005 Location: US Posts: 31 Points: 42,976.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 42,976.00 Donate Rep Power: 0	well depends on how much of a friend she is too you, if she's more of an acquaintance than like an actual friend then girl u do your thing. Otherwise, leave the guy alone jare; guys come and go but good friends are hard to find. then again, it could be just a physical attraction, in that case just gbensh the guy on the low and have an agreement not to tell anybody, i'm sure he won't mind and ur girl never gets to find out so everyone is happy.

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