Was she wrong?

Ewa · 01-02-2008, 04:51 AM

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**Wendydoks** · 01-02-2008, 04:53 AM

wat do u think?....but as per her fers of him being the abusive type, no doubt, she was def lookin out 4 her sef. the oone of her sis is jes too much. not nec. jes talk to him. he seems like the rude kain sha.

Boss · 01-02-2008, 05:16 AM

What a fool.

precious_zim · 01-02-2008, 08:45 PM

hmmm i think she was right in breaking off the relationship due to the things he said and the tone in which he said them. For me personally, that's kind of rude no matter if he looks at it as a joke or a saying. She's your girlfriend not your homie so you have to watch your words with her. The sister thing...hmmm i'm sorry but i love my family and boyfriend or no boyfriend, I can't stand for him disrespecting any member of my family. Just my two cents

lulu · 01-03-2008, 10:02 AM

if i slap you??? the guy is mad sha....she sure aint wrong!

minglemoon · 01-03-2008, 01:10 PM

His boorish attitude makes the rship outrightly unhealthy.I think she made the best decision.

Laydee-B · 01-03-2008, 09:22 PM

hmmmm i guess i'm a lil strange then....lol me and my guy talk shit to each other on the phone all da time. yesterday i told him i was gonna stick sumthin up his ass if he didn't shatup and he said he would slap me and i didn't get angry ....but we were joking around and i assume the guy was serious when he said the slap u part ...as for the sister thing welll... that woulda pissed me off but i woulda just said something smart.

Thalia Al Ghul · 01-09-2008, 01:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Laydee-B

hmmmm i guess i'm a lil strange then....lol me and my guy talk shit to each other on the phone all da time. yesterday i told him i was gonna stick sumthin up his ass if he didn't shatup and he said he would slap me and i didn't get angry ....but we were joking around and i assume the guy was serious when he said the slap u part ...as for the sister thing welll... that woulda pissed me off but i woulda just said something smart.

hmmmm.

DCExplorer · 01-10-2008, 09:56 AM

na shakara...according to Fela

Laydee-B · 01-10-2008, 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Padmé Amidala

hmmmm.

lol....yea

J3D · 01-10-2008, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Laydee-B

hmmmm i guess i'm a lil strange then....lol me and my guy talk shit to each other on the phone all da time. yesterday i told him i was gonna stick sumthin up his ass if he didn't shatup and he said he would slap me and i didn't get angry ....but we were joking around and i assume the guy was serious when he said the slap u part ...as for the sister thing welll... that woulda pissed me off but i woulda just said something smart.

That's the reason no one here can tell if she made the right decision or not, the same way you can't judge the guy's character based on the little tale you just told us. Its not about wrong or right its about personality...if she wants someone different then she should leave and find the kind of man she wants. Shikena.

Boss · 01-11-2008, 03:00 AM

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Originally Posted by DCExplorer

na shakara...according to Fela

i go beat u i go nearly kill u

FIE · 01-11-2008, 03:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Ewa

Was my homegirl wrong for breaking up her relationship with her boyfriend because the said guy was like "how come your sister is so fat?". And also when they're both on the phone, he's always saying things like "if I slap you" and rude crap like "are you deaf" in a very alarming tone. She thinks he's gonna be abusive in the future. My friend does not joke with any of her family members and she gets real sensitive about that. So do you think those reasons were mundane?

He will be ke? He is already abusive. She is smart.

Ewa · 01-16-2008, 01:41 AM

Yeah, I also think she made the right decision. To me it's all about your standards and what you can take from someone..

Boss · 01-17-2008, 02:32 AM

She should have waited till he actually hit her.

Yes. I said it.

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precious_zim Registered User Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 28 Points: 2,661.65 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 2,661.65 Donate Rep Power: 0	hmmm i think she was right in breaking off the relationship due to the things he said and the tone in which he said them. For me personally, that's kind of rude no matter if he looks at it as a joke or a saying. She's your girlfriend not your homie so you have to watch your words with her. The sister thing...hmmm i'm sorry but i love my family and boyfriend or no boyfriend, I can't stand for him disrespecting any member of my family. Just my two cents __________________ I do what I please and I do it with ease.

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Laydee-B Moderator Join Date: Jun 2001 Posts: 8,010 Points: 54,010.25 Bank: 5,000,207.13 Total Points: 5,054,217.38 Donate Rep Power: 1732215	hmmmm i guess i'm a lil strange then....lol me and my guy talk shit to each other on the phone all da time. yesterday i told him i was gonna stick sumthin up his ass if he didn't shatup and he said he would slap me and i didn't get angry ....but we were joking around and i assume the guy was serious when he said the slap u part ...as for the sister thing welll... that woulda pissed me off but i woulda just said something smart. __________________ *What you looking at? I ain't no Mirror!*

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Ewa Registered User Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 53 Points: 4,293.10 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 4,293.10 Donate Rep Power: 0	Yeah, I also think she made the right decision. To me it's all about your standards and what you can take from someone..

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