Maybe...P1

Misty · 12-03-2007, 05:04 PM

Relationships just get boring after a while or this is a problem my homegurl needs to recognize and get over. She says she gets really bored after being with a guy for a couple of months. When she meets a guy, she gets all excited and really wants to get to know him but after she's talked to him for a couple of months or so depending on how close they get, she starts to develop this lack of interest when she's gotten to know almost everything about him (not sexual) and in most cases starts to distant herself until she meets another guy and the cycle repeats.
Some guys have told her she has a very nonchalant attitude about people and plays with people's emotions a bit too often. I really don't think so but she does have the persona of someone always seeking something new, exciting, and challenging and maybe that is the reason she gets bored with these guys too often.

I don't know what to tell her.

Indecent Omaricha · 12-03-2007, 06:21 PM

are u sure it aint u coz it sure sounds like u........I need to know so I tell u the best advice to give her or take 4 urself

Kikelomo · 12-03-2007, 06:27 PM

at some point she will want something more substantial and learn to stand still with someone.

Misty · 12-04-2007, 02:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Indecent Omaricha

are u sure it aint u coz it sure sounds like u........I need to know so I tell u the best advice to give her or take 4 urself

What difference does it make? but its my friend, not me.

Misty · 12-04-2007, 02:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Kikelomo

at some point she will want something more substantial and learn to stand still with someone.

I hope so too.

daddidollars · 12-04-2007, 02:41 AM

she can have flings??

naija_pikin · 12-04-2007, 03:31 AM

Yea, tell her to stick to dating. The same way I tell guys not to get into relationships if they know they're not ready for commitment and will end up messing around is the same way you need to let her know that if she's not ready to settle down, she needs to be clear about it from the get-go in order to minimize any possible emotional pain to the other party(ies).

*DiamOnd* · 12-04-2007, 03:33 AM

maybe she needs to sex 'em first so she won't lose interest

Asabi · 12-04-2007, 08:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Misty

Relationships just get boring after a while or this is a problem my homegurl needs to recognize and get over. She says she gets really bored after being with a guy for a couple of months. When she meets a guy, she gets all excited and really wants to get to know him but after she's talked to him for a couple of months or so depending on how close they get, she starts to develop this lack of interest when she's gotten to know almost everything about him (not sexual) and in most cases starts to distant herself until she meets another guy and the cycle repeats.
Some guys have told her she has a very nonchalant attitude about people and plays with people's emotions a bit too often. I really don't think so but she does have the persona of someone always seeking something new, exciting, and challenging and maybe that is the reason she gets bored with these guys too often.

I don't know what to tell her.

That describes me sha, but I do it mostly with friends sometimes though. This has been the case with a coupla guys though....

Your friend is okay, *I'm being bias here*

BlueBeauty · 12-05-2007, 01:10 AM

I think its normal, until you really know what you are looking for & you meet someone who truly captures your attention beyond the surface. Nothing wrong with 2-3 'monthters' its better than staying with someone who bores you & go about whining about it.

guess i can relate.

pynkspyce · 12-05-2007, 09:03 AM

she doesnt know what she is looking for. till she does, she will always have a need to wander.

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Misty PH Lady Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: NR Posts: 41,837 Points: 99,570.00 Bank: 82,032,941,144.26 Total Points: 82,033,040,714.26 Donate Rep Power: 21474933	Maybe...P1 Relationships just get boring after a while or this is a problem my homegurl needs to recognize and get over. She says she gets really bored after being with a guy for a couple of months. When she meets a guy, she gets all excited and really wants to get to know him but after she's talked to him for a couple of months or so depending on how close they get, she starts to develop this lack of interest when she's gotten to know almost everything about him (not sexual) and in most cases starts to distant herself until she meets another guy and the cycle repeats. Some guys have told her she has a very nonchalant attitude about people and plays with people's emotions a bit too often. I really don't think so but she does have the persona of someone always seeking something new, exciting, and challenging and maybe that is the reason she gets bored with these guys too often. I don't know what to tell her.

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Kikelomo Bamboo Banga Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: I fly like paper, get high like planes Posts: 24,401 Points: 131.73 Bank: 5,684,565.34 Total Points: 5,684,697.07 Donate Rep Power: 6377664	at some point she will want something more substantial and learn to stand still with someone. __________________ "Normal is nothing more than a cycle on a washing machine." ~ Whoopi Goldberg

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naija_pikin Femme Fatale Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Dans tes rêves Posts: 29,828 Points: 31,500.00 Bank: 435,356,590,800.55 Total Points: 435,356,622,300.55 Donate Rep Power: 21474915	Yea, tell her to stick to dating. The same way I tell guys not to get into relationships if they know they're not ready for commitment and will end up messing around is the same way you need to let her know that if she's not ready to settle down, she needs to be clear about it from the get-go in order to minimize any possible emotional pain to the other party(ies).

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BlueBeauty Registered User Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: oblivion Posts: 4,635 Points: 3,600.00 Bank: 1,283,790.94 Total Points: 1,287,390.95 Donate Rep Power: 5603134	I think its normal, until you really know what you are looking for & you meet someone who truly captures your attention beyond the surface. Nothing wrong with 2-3 'monthters' its better than staying with someone who bores you & go about whining about it. guess i can relate.

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