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11-17-2007, 09:17 AM
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My gf is 28 no boyfriend and now parents back home in naija are calling saying
when will i have my grandchild to carry as if na by rush person dey marry and born pinkin.Sometimes nigeria culture brings too much stress to life and life is already too hard enough. 28 and no boyfriend insight she is not ready to settle down bicos she want to be her own woman first is that so wrong ? some pple expecially her uncle in naija don't understand that.
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11-17-2007, 09:40 AM
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If her getting her life together the way she wants it or in that order then let her be, Obtaining a bf might not be what she wants or needs. Whatever makes her happy. 
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11-17-2007, 09:54 AM
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lol...I had a friend that her mom was asking her that where is her boyfriend when she was 20, just because her 19 yr. old cousin was in a serious relationship at the time...
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11-17-2007, 10:21 AM
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She's 28...and she's not yet "her own woman"? wut kinda fucking excuse do these women come up with seriously?
if she has any intentions of being a mother, she should step up her game and grow the fuck up and stop hiding under that weak excuse.... By the time she hits 30-32 and borns pikin...that's how some special ed would just drop down from her belle.
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11-17-2007, 08:31 PM
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11-17-2007, 08:43 PM
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11-17-2007, 09:35 PM
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Must she have a boyfriend? Haba! Being your own person is a lot more meaningful than being someone else's, which is what many women become when they get married anyway.
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11-17-2007, 10:21 PM
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but nami, your friend need to be true to herself an not hide behind the 'being her own person' statement. Just let her family know she looking but haven't found, maybe they can find someone for her, like someone said she can't go to the market to buy a husband. |
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11-17-2007, 10:51 PM
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11-19-2007, 08:28 PM
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but that was a bit cold tho.poor woman. if she's not her own woman by 28, then at what age will she? 
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11-21-2007, 12:54 PM
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lol. This thread is quite amusing. "Being one's own person" is all of a sudden being equated with "finding oneself". She is not confused, nor is she necessarily trying to hide behind some statement. In fact, some fools had me confused for a minute. First and foremost, whatever she chooses to do with her life is really her prerogative, and there is no need to comment on it deridingly. Secondly, not everyone has to see things the same way, and there is nothing wrong with her wanting to be fully independent before finally signing her life off into an agreement of mutual dependence. If it's something that's of particular importance to her, then it's better that she attain it first, rather than get married, and later have regrets which might tamper with that marriage.
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