On the topic of marriage with a little religion diversion

virgoluv · 08-28-2007, 07:23 PM

How many of you actually have parents or you yourself beleive that you have to marry someone thats from the same tribe as you..I just saw a response in Mz Nita's thread where the dude said he couldnt marry the chic cuz she was not Yoruba.

Thalia Al Ghul · 08-28-2007, 07:24 PM

Nothing against my parents but i don't think they would take too kindly to me marrying an Igbo person.
Too many bad experiences there for them.
Personally..i don't have a problem.

virgoluv · 08-28-2007, 07:26 PM

will you be willing to go against your parents tho and marry an igbo dude if your parents were strongly against it?

Indecent Omaricha · 08-28-2007, 07:28 PM

dat na my post naw......and na my chic be dat

and 2 answer ur question, i would PREFER to marry an ibo man.........but if na yoruba man (or any other tribe part 4rm hausa

) carry me go altar, then no yawa.
my reason's coz it's just easier marrying some1 that shares same culture as u....same way i no wan marry oyibo man. it make life easier jor.......and naming the kids a more easier job

I no wan name my kids Ogbobo something wey i no fit pronouce b4 i dey call my child "ssss!"

Thalia Al Ghul · 08-28-2007, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by virgoluv

will you be willing to go against your parents tho and marry an igbo dude if your parents were strongly against it?

yup..wot are they gonna do? disown me?They will be sufficient.

Ms Tolace · 08-28-2007, 07:29 PM

when my mom found out about my igbo guyfriend she said " tolu is it igbo person u are befriending now"..i go mommy he is my friend...and yes he is igbo....she was like "you know its good to date ur kind", and i am like ok...then she says welll " its whoever God gives you".....every guyfriend is my boyfriend

I dont think my parents will throw a fit sha...

**askimoli** · 08-28-2007, 07:30 PM

I know for a fact my mom wld rather we marry igbo men. I don't see myself being with an igbo man.

GirlBully2 · 08-28-2007, 07:31 PM

my parents have said, and still continue to say, they want me to marry an Esan man..

they know me well enough to know that i do what i want anyway... i say, they should be happy if i decide to marry sef... like dude being from my own tribe is some kind of prerequisite for happines.. psssh

Thalia Al Ghul · 08-28-2007, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by askimoli

I know for a fact my mom wld rather we marry igbo men. I don't see myself being with an igbo man.

**askimoli** · 08-28-2007, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Selina Kyle

:fancy: what did i say?

Indecent Omaricha · 08-28-2007, 07:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GirlBully2

my parents have said, and still continue to say, they want me to marry an Esan man..

they know me well enough to know that i do what i want anyway... i say, they should be happy if i decide to marry sef... like dude being from my own tribe is some kind of prerequisite for happines.. psssh

GirlBully2 · 08-28-2007, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by askimoli

I know for a fact my mom wld rather we marry igbo men. I don't see myself being with an igbo man.

lol.. i don't see myself being with an Esan man... i've only met like 2 in my 10 years here.. and i see 'em as brothers, not potential kpanshers..

**askimoli** · 08-28-2007, 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by GirlBully2

lol.. i don't see myself being with an Esan man... i've only met like 2 in my 10 years here.. and i see 'em as brothers, not potential kpanshers..

i have been around enough igbo men in my lifetime to know that they are not worth ish, sad to say, but at times i wonder about our (igbo) menfolk

Thalia Al Ghul · 08-28-2007, 07:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by askimoli

:fancy: what did i say?

Niggersssss.

Ms Tolace · 08-28-2007, 07:34 PM

i see my self with a man...well a naija man...igbo or yoruba...hausa i cant do...their language sounds like they are calling their cattle..

08-28-2007, 07:23 PM	#1 (permalink)
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virgoluv ~Nicest Winsh in Town~ Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Texas, Y'all Posts: 38,319 Points: 148,565.95 Bank: 353,842,547.54 Total Points: 353,991,113.49 Donate Rep Power: 21474933	will you be willing to go against your parents tho and marry an igbo dude if your parents were strongly against it? __________________ The biggest decision a woman can make in her life is not who to marry but who should be the father of her children..You can't undo it There's nothing more scary than watching ignorance in action. http://www.tayne-ment.blogspot.com/

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Ms Tolace J'habite dans ma tete ♥ Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: in my head. Posts: 34,433 Points: 304,270.00 Bank: 255,209,992,857.44 Total Points: 255,210,297,127.44 Donate Rep Power: 21461295	when my mom found out about my igbo guyfriend she said " tolu is it igbo person u are befriending now"..i go mommy he is my friend...and yes he is igbo....she was like "you know its good to date ur kind", and i am like ok...then she says welll " its whoever God gives you".....every guyfriend is my boyfriend I dont think my parents will throw a fit sha... __________________

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askimoli NGBC Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 21,207 Points: 264,010.49 Bank: 7.64 Total Points: 264,018.14 Donate Rep Power: 21474890	I know for a fact my mom wld rather we marry igbo men. I don't see myself being with an igbo man. __________________ Thalia...iyawo mi tele tele

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Ms Tolace J'habite dans ma tete ♥ Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: in my head. Posts: 34,433 Points: 304,270.00 Bank: 255,209,992,857.44 Total Points: 255,210,297,127.44 Donate Rep Power: 21461295	i see my self with a man...well a naija man...igbo or yoruba...hausa i cant do...their language sounds like they are calling their cattle.. __________________

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