BF miscommunication

chanelisa · 07-22-2007, 08:44 PM

I've been with this guy for over a year and i've let him know time and again that i don't like keeping malice. Okay, so on friday, we had a miscommunication. He said I talked to him wrong. Ironically, I feel he did the same thing to me too. He's not talking to me but I talk to him even though I can tell that he does not really want to talk to me. It's really hard for me to feel that he loves me when he's treating me like this. Right now, I'm feeling like this relationship will not work after all. To make matters worse, we're living together for the next week at least. I just want to see what the other ryders have to say.

minglemoon · 07-22-2007, 08:48 PM

ur points are cloudy and details r sketchy..

chanelisa · 07-22-2007, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by minglemoon

ur points are cloudy and details r sketchy..

What exactly are you looking for? Let me know, so I know where to start. I tried to summarize the whole situation in a few sentences.

minglemoon · 07-22-2007, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by chanelisa

I've been with this guy for over a year and i've let him know time and again that i don't like keeping malice. Okay, so on friday, we had a miscommunication. He said I talked to him wrong. Ironically, I feel he did the same thing to me too. He's not talking to me but I talk to him even though I can tell that he does not really want to talk to me. It's really hard for me to feel that he loves me when he's treating me like this. Right now, I'm feeling like this relationship will not work after all. To make matters worse, we're living together for the next week at least. I just want to see what the other ryders have to say.

wats the inside story?

Efizzybaby · 07-22-2007, 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by minglemoon

wats the inside story?

^^^what he said^^^

minglemoon · 07-22-2007, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Efizzybaby

^^^what he said^^^

miscommunication 4 thread title...miscommunication inside story......i dont get it..

Efizzybaby · 07-22-2007, 09:19 PM

miscommunication lomor

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Originally Posted by chanelisa

I've been with this guy for over a year and i've let him know time and again that i don't like keeping malice. Okay, so on friday, we had a miscommunication. He said I talked to him wrong. Ironically, I feel he did the same thing to me too. He's not talking to me but I talk to him even though I can tell that he does not really want to talk to me. It's really hard for me to feel that he loves me when he's treating me like this. Right now, I'm feeling like this relationship will not work after all. To make matters worse, we're living together for the next week at least. I just want to see what the other ryders have to say.

**Wendydoks** · 07-22-2007, 09:41 PM

lmao! the irony dikwa egwu o

Boss · 07-22-2007, 11:50 PM

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Originally Posted by chanelisa

I've been with this guy for over a year and i've let him know time and again that i don't like keeping malice. Okay, so on friday, we had a miscommunication. He said I talked to him wrong. Ironically, I feel he did the same thing to me too. He's not talking to me but I talk to him even though I can tell that he does not really want to talk to me. It's really hard for me to feel that he loves me when he's treating me like this. Right now, I'm feeling like this relationship will not work after all. To make matters worse, we're living together for the next week at least. I just want to see what the other ryders have to say.

You feel the relationship won't work because both of you are not talking to each other?

Really, this is all about who's going to take fault and be responsible...if he said you talked to him wrong...apologize.

It's that simple really. Nothing too complicated. Dont bring up old stuff. When he did it you might have told him that he was talking to you wrong, now just apologize and keep it moving

He's mad...everyone has a right to be mad.

This thing is not too complicated. It's elementary, immature and childish to say the least...one would start questioning your age on reading something like this, but the answer is not too big: apologize, keep it moving...learn to shrug off somethings he does, and if he keeps on getting on ur nerves or acts a certain way u dont like...tell him that instant...dont cry over milk wey don dried inside carpet.

chanelisa · 07-23-2007, 12:21 AM

Boss,
thanks for advice. We resolved our issues even before me reading all y'all's wonderful sayings! Thanks for all the responses!

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Originally Posted by Boss

You feel the relationship won't work because both of you are not talking to each other?

Really, this is all about who's going to take fault and be responsible...if he said you talked to him wrong...apologize.

It's that simple really. Nothing too complicated. Dont bring up old stuff. When he did it you might have told him that he was talking to you wrong, now just apologize and keep it moving

He's mad...everyone has a right to be mad.

This thing is not too complicated. It's elementary, immature and childish to say the least...one would start questioning your age on reading something like this, but the answer is not too big: apologize, keep it moving...learn to shrug off somethings he does, and if he keeps on getting on ur nerves or acts a certain way u dont like...tell him that instant...dont cry over milk wey don dried inside carpet.

BGTizzle · 07-23-2007, 03:06 AM

Keeping malice is horrible. The man is obviously immature.

Do what your heart tells you. start by having a chat with him first about this keeping malice business. Its not healthy at all.

Efizzybaby · 07-23-2007, 04:08 AM

Sup mami

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Originally Posted by BGTizzle

Keeping malice is horrible. The man is obviously immature.

Do what your heart tells you. start by having a chat with him first about this keeping malice business. Its not healthy at all.

07-22-2007, 08:44 PM	#1 (permalink)
chanelisa Registered User Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: D.C Metro Area Posts: 14 Points: 629.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 629.00 Donate Rep Power: 0	BF miscommunication I've been with this guy for over a year and i've let him know time and again that i don't like keeping malice. Okay, so on friday, we had a miscommunication. He said I talked to him wrong. Ironically, I feel he did the same thing to me too. He's not talking to me but I talk to him even though I can tell that he does not really want to talk to me. It's really hard for me to feel that he loves me when he's treating me like this. Right now, I'm feeling like this relationship will not work after all. To make matters worse, we're living together for the next week at least. I just want to see what the other ryders have to say.

07-22-2007, 08:48 PM	#2 (permalink)
minglemoon NR's wine Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: NR planet Posts: 3,244 Points: 78,973,797.70 Bank: 91,902,793.91 Total Points: 170,876,591.61 Donate Rep Power: 21474853	ur points are cloudy and details r sketchy.. __________________ To those whom i shoot,forgive the depths. oh ok...i mean. To those who get the horses' hoof,forgive the travel expenses. So long as u didnt tottally lose ur breaths, We can construct friendly sentences using simple future tenses. ..................jes the E-me.

07-22-2007, 09:41 PM	#8 (permalink)
Wendydoks The Black Rose Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: "Deal with the faults of others as gently as with your own".__Chinese Proverb Posts: 13,059 Points: 44,010.00 Bank: 38,246,978.82 Total Points: 38,290,988.82 Donate Rep Power: 21474876	lmao! the irony dikwa egwu o __________________ Res ipsa loquitur The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them with our own image - otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. Love comes to those who still hope, even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe, even though they've been betrayed, to those who still love, even though they've been hurt before.

07-23-2007, 03:06 AM	#11 (permalink)
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