She's contemplating switching over to you...

Bubus · 05-03-2007, 05:44 PM

She already has a fiance. Actually she even lives with him. But she says they are having problems. You met her recently. She is hot, attractive and full of life. You flirted with her and wanted her even before you discovered the status of her relationship.
Now that you know, she has made no bones about the fact that she wants to switch over to you. You are still seeing each other on the low.

How do you advice that the person concerned should handle this??

...women, can you shed more light into the thinking and rationale of the said chick?

Indecent Omaricha · 05-03-2007, 05:46 PM

Kikelomo · 05-03-2007, 05:46 PM

The same way she is being fickle and switching over to you is the same way she will switch over to someone else once you guys start having problems.
Dont carry another person's bukata for house.

Icegold · 05-03-2007, 05:46 PM

Grass is greener mentality...

I wouldn't deal with a chick thinking that way...my 2kobo

Optimist · 05-03-2007, 05:47 PM

Go with the flow

They aint married until they are married ...and even then peeps still divorce etc . If she is feeling the other guy more than she is feeling her fiance then its a no brainer ...she defintely should switch

~Abeke~ · 05-03-2007, 05:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jaemellah

The same way she is being fickle and switching over to you is the same way she will switch over to someone else once you guys start having problems.
Dont carry another person's bukata for house.

wot she said

Bubus · 05-03-2007, 05:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by U.G

If you do this again, I will send you to Coventry.

Kikelomo · 05-03-2007, 05:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sugar

Go with the flow

They aint married until they are married ...and even then peeps still divorce etc . If she is feeling the other guy more than she is feeling her fiance then its a no brainer ...she defintely should switch

Wow..i hope ur joking.

Optimist · 05-03-2007, 05:50 PM

What about peeps that genuinely meet soemone they love more ???. I wouldnt advice proceeding to marriage in that situation ...better to explore the other option and get it out of your system . This one that she is already cheating on her man even b4 they walk down the altar ...what kinda wife / marriage will that be ...she should do her fiance a favour and dump him

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jaemellah

The same way she is being fickle and switching over to you is the same way she will switch over to someone else once you guys start having problems.
Dont carry another person's bukata for house.

Bubus · 05-03-2007, 05:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jaemellah

The same way she is being fickle and switching over to you is the same way she will switch over to someone else once you guys start having problems.
Dont carry another person's bukata for house.

But the anatomy of the issues she's having with said fiance suggests it isn't fickle. Homegirl and guy sound like they having irreconcilable differences. Plus guy sounds like he's already moved on...

Indecent Omaricha · 05-03-2007, 05:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bubus

If you do this again, I will send you to Coventry.

wateva makes u happy

Clockwatcher · 05-03-2007, 05:50 PM

The girl is not stable... bang her and move on.

***SmOkEyEyEz*** · 05-03-2007, 05:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jaemellah

The same way she is being fickle and switching over to you is the same way she will switch over to someone else once you guys start having problems.
Dont carry another person's bukata for house.

Why would you want to put yourself in a sticky situation like that? You're just the rebound bobo

Bubus · 05-03-2007, 05:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sugar

Go with the flow

They aint married until they are married ...and even then peeps still divorce etc . If she is feeling the other guy more than she is feeling her fiance then its a no brainer ...she defintely should switch

Why are the best fruits in the forbidden bush??

GURU · 05-03-2007, 05:51 PM

WOMEN!! SMH, n then they go say men are dogs....

@BUBUS...ya job is to do what you have to do, she should be the one worrying....

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