Re: NR females, Do you really blame us?

BlueBeauty · 04-28-2007, 01:40 AM

A 40+ year old naijah man living in the DC area told me this:

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I feel for naija girls, especially the one overseas. Back at home by the time a single man reaches 30, he is almost ashamed to go to parties cause all his friends are there with their wives & kids. But here, you see 50+ men prancing around with a new fling every 6 months and there is absolutely no motivation to settle down. Also the fact that many are now open to having kids out of wedlock eliminates the pressure from your parents. So why won't i be a bachelor for life? When i turn 50, maybe i'll go home to find a 20 year old to marry, maybe....

So who's to blame? and for what?

**askimoli** · 04-28-2007, 01:44 AM

Sad as it may sound he does have a point. My older bro who lives in naija was so adamant that he wld get married b/4 he turned 35 in june that he not only had the white wedding two wks after the trad wedding, but he had it on easter monday.
At first he was non-chalant about getting married, but when he saw all his friends and older bro happily married and having kids, he realized that he too needed a partner

**Omosewa** · 04-28-2007, 01:47 AM

He better be rich to find a twenty year old to marry. Or use juju on her

If he wanted to get married he wld, so at his age, peer pressure is affecting him??

tobakanye · 04-28-2007, 01:48 AM

yeah he's got a point now , even worse now when u know she gets half if u ever divorce....

Misty · 04-28-2007, 01:48 AM

hmm..sad

**askimoli** · 04-28-2007, 01:49 AM

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Originally Posted by tobakanye

yeah he's got a point now , even worse now when u know she gets half if u ever divorce....

ur own they always get k-leg

On the real though, regardless of how westernized naija becomes, it will still take a while for family values to faze out. Even with the naija guys here, when they get older they still itch to get married. the only difference is that instead of getting the itch at 30, they get it at 40

tobakanye · 04-28-2007, 01:53 AM

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Originally Posted by askimoli

ur own they always get k-leg

On the real though, regardless of how westernized naija becomes, it will still take a while for family values to faze out. Even with the naija guys here, when they get older they still itch to get married. the only difference is that instead of getting the itch at 30, they get it at 40

u sef wan yap!!! it doesnt fit u abeg...

**askimoli** · 04-28-2007, 01:54 AM

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Originally Posted by tobakanye

u sef wan yap!!! it doesnt fit u abeg...

dude if i yap u, u will know. I made an observation, ur points are always out there...get it?

tobakanye · 04-28-2007, 01:55 AM

**tomapep** · 04-28-2007, 02:04 AM

**Wendydoks** · 04-28-2007, 11:19 PM

men and their nsogbu sha. *smh*

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askimoli NGBC Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 21,207 Points: 264,010.49 Bank: 7.64 Total Points: 264,018.14 Donate Rep Power: 21474890	Sad as it may sound he does have a point. My older bro who lives in naija was so adamant that he wld get married b/4 he turned 35 in june that he not only had the white wedding two wks after the trad wedding, but he had it on easter monday. At first he was non-chalant about getting married, but when he saw all his friends and older bro happily married and having kids, he realized that he too needed a partner __________________ Thalia...iyawo mi tele tele

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Omosewa Elder Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: ...in Him. Posts: 10,449 Points: 50,210.91 Bank: 8,920,598,005.45 Total Points: 8,920,648,216.36 Donate Rep Power: 21474868	He better be rich to find a twenty year old to marry. Or use juju on her If he wanted to get married he wld, so at his age, peer pressure is affecting him?? __________________ Oluwaonidehinleyinmi...

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tomapep shoots from the lip Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 12,022 Points: 5,550.90 Bank: 66,894,037,064.68 Total Points: 66,894,042,615.58 Donate Rep Power: 21474874	__________________ please disregard previous message

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Wendydoks The Black Rose Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: "Deal with the faults of others as gently as with your own".__Chinese Proverb Posts: 13,059 Points: 44,010.00 Bank: 38,246,978.82 Total Points: 38,290,988.82 Donate Rep Power: 21474876	men and their nsogbu sha. smh __________________ Res ipsa loquitur The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them with our own image - otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. Love comes to those who still hope, even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe, even though they've been betrayed, to those who still love, even though they've been hurt before.

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tobakanye Akogun Dat Akure Boy Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 7,775 Points: 36,957.00 Bank: 144,426,152.87 Total Points: 144,463,109.87 Donate Rep Power: 21474866	yeah he's got a point now , even worse now when u know she gets half if u ever divorce....

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Misty PH Lady Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: NR Posts: 41,837 Points: 99,570.00 Bank: 82,032,941,144.26 Total Points: 82,033,040,714.26 Donate Rep Power: 21474933	hmm..sad

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tobakanye Akogun Dat Akure Boy Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 7,775 Points: 36,957.00 Bank: 144,426,152.87 Total Points: 144,463,109.87 Donate Rep Power: 21474866	ok

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