Dear Abi Dis Ryder I luv

Asa · 02-05-2007, 09:49 PM

I'm in luv with a ryder of NR.
I like him because he is smart,
sexy, sweet, passionate,
caring and many more to know about
him.

I don't know how to get to him

what should I do?

02-05-2007, 10:16 PM

Flirt with him on one of the threads. Rep him with a cute message.

Asa · 02-05-2007, 10:35 PM

ok.
but I'm shy

02-05-2007, 10:39 PM

well, start by just casually responding to anything he says on a thread. after you've built a rapport, then you can begin flirting. but steel yourself, in case he has a girlfriend. you don't want to get hurt.

Asa · 02-05-2007, 10:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mzz Nita

well, start by just casually responding to anything he says on a thread. after you've built a rapport, then you can begin flirting. but steel yourself, in case he has a girlfriend. you don't want to get hurt.

ok. sure will try something,

ermm, who closed the other thread and why

02-05-2007, 10:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ziengo

ok. sure will try something,

ermm, who closed the other thread and why

u guys refused to stop arguing

Asa · 02-05-2007, 10:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mzz Nita

u guys refused to stop arguing

chinaedu started it

, corrupting my thread

crAzy Don · 02-08-2007, 08:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mzz Nita

Flirt with him on one of the threads. Rep him with a cute message.

Talkin from experience hmm?

02-08-2007, 04:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by crAzy Don

Talkin from experience hmm?

No

.

And welcome back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*DiamOnd* · 02-09-2007, 04:38 AM

PLEASE HE IS PROBABLY MY DOUBLE ID..BUAHHAHAHA GOTCH YA!!

Asa · 02-09-2007, 08:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by *DiamOnd*

PLEASE HE IS PROBABLY MY DOUBLE ID..BUAHHAHAHA GOTCH YA!!

really? can we make out then?

02-13-2007, 09:47 PM

I got something for you !!!!!!

http://personals.yahoo.com/us/static..._cyberflirting

Note: replace e-mails with PMs

Master the art of cyberflirting
For many of you, communicating for the first time with someone you have not yet met can be a stressful and confusing proposition. Others may actually find this easier than flirting in the offline world. Whichever camp you fall in, we hope that the following tips will help you find the right words, nuances, and keyboard symbols to send the right message to your online crush.

Opening up the conversation
If you are the first to initiate an eflirt, keep your message relatively short and simple, but always include an intriguing fact about yourself to elicit curiosity (and inspire a response).
Example: Hello! I love the fact that you're a world traveler - have you ever been to Timbuktu? (Even if you've never been, you can follow up with subsequent messages about wanting to visit.)

The "Open Loop/Closed Loop" email
If for whatever reason you are not interested in pursuing a dialogue with your eflirtee, there are a couple of ways you can send the right message without being completely rude - this is the art of the "open- and closed-loop email." The open-looped email always ends with a question; the closed-looped email does not. The open-looped email indicates you are interested while the closed-looped hopefully lets the person know to stop emailing you.

Open-looped:It sounds like you are quite a mountain biker - where do you like to ride? What kind of bike do you have?

Closed-looped:That's cool that you like to bike. Take it easy.

Timing is everything
Similar to the offline world, timing is everything - but the rules on email are different. You do not need to wait three days to return an email, but you do need to wait more than three minutes. It's a smart idea to vary your response time, and be aware of how long he/she is taking to respond to you. Also of note: responding to emails at 10 pm on a Saturday night may not send the right message (and people, especially women do notice these things).

Spelling and grammar
People have very different standards for spelling and grammar in the email world. In the beginning, try to err on the grammatically correct side of things (this way they know you are capable of writing a complete sentence). It never hurts to run a spell-check or take time to proofread. After you have established a rapport, you can take more liberty using lower case, slang terms, and more casual communication.
In no time, you'll be wooing prospective dates with your flirtatious emails.

**NARNIA** · 02-14-2007, 02:25 AM

open a thread confessn ur love for him and pretend its a joke. if he answers +vely, u can carry on, if not, it was a joke!

Asa · 02-14-2007, 09:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mzz Nita

I got something for you !!!!!!

http://personals.yahoo.com/us/static..._cyberflirting

Note: replace e-mails with PMs

Master the art of cyberflirting
For many of you, communicating for the first time with someone you have not yet met can be a stressful and confusing proposition. Others may actually find this easier than flirting in the offline world. Whichever camp you fall in, we hope that the following tips will help you find the right words, nuances, and keyboard symbols to send the right message to your online crush.

Opening up the conversation
If you are the first to initiate an eflirt, keep your message relatively short and simple, but always include an intriguing fact about yourself to elicit curiosity (and inspire a response).
Example: Hello! I love the fact that you're a world traveler - have you ever been to Timbuktu? (Even if you've never been, you can follow up with subsequent messages about wanting to visit.)

The "Open Loop/Closed Loop" email
If for whatever reason you are not interested in pursuing a dialogue with your eflirtee, there are a couple of ways you can send the right message without being completely rude - this is the art of the "open- and closed-loop email." The open-looped email always ends with a question; the closed-looped email does not. The open-looped email indicates you are interested while the closed-looped hopefully lets the person know to stop emailing you.

Open-looped:It sounds like you are quite a mountain biker - where do you like to ride? What kind of bike do you have?

Closed-looped:That's cool that you like to bike. Take it easy.

Timing is everything
Similar to the offline world, timing is everything - but the rules on email are different. You do not need to wait three days to return an email, but you do need to wait more than three minutes. It's a smart idea to vary your response time, and be aware of how long he/she is taking to respond to you. Also of note: responding to emails at 10 pm on a Saturday night may not send the right message (and people, especially women do notice these things).

Spelling and grammar
People have very different standards for spelling and grammar in the email world. In the beginning, try to err on the grammatically correct side of things (this way they know you are capable of writing a complete sentence). It never hurts to run a spell-check or take time to proofread. After you have established a rapport, you can take more liberty using lower case, slang terms, and more casual communication.
In no time, you'll be wooing prospective dates with your flirtatious emails.

Thanks Miss Nita and Narnia for your ideas

Ebony-T · 03-09-2007, 01:06 PM

i bet i know who it is

02-05-2007, 09:49 PM	#1 (permalink)
Asa African Chikito #1 Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 5,344 Points: 1,525.79 Bank: 10,990,320.60 Total Points: 10,991,846.40 Donate Rep Power: 4305638	Dear Abi Dis Ryder I luv I'm in luv with a ryder of NR. I like him because he is smart, sexy, sweet, passionate, caring and many more to know about him. I don't know how to get to him what should I do? __________________ *Nwanyiakwu Oganaudo! Nwa Eze Okoroukwu nke gi ka nma. Lezie anya ofuma na ebe Eze nke gi nuo* Yes Auntie. A na Le ke ebe inuo?

02-05-2007, 10:35 PM	#3 (permalink)
Asa African Chikito #1 Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 5,344 Points: 1,525.79 Bank: 10,990,320.60 Total Points: 10,991,846.40 Donate Rep Power: 4305638	ok. but I'm shy __________________ *Nwanyiakwu Oganaudo! Nwa Eze Okoroukwu nke gi ka nma. Lezie anya ofuma na ebe Eze nke gi nuo* Yes Auntie. A na Le ke ebe inuo?

02-14-2007, 02:25 AM	#13 (permalink)
NARNIA Wife to the Senator King of All Nite Ryders Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: ..stuck btw a rock and a hard place.. Posts: 8,500 Points: 13,127.25 Bank: 2,351,622.67 Total Points: 2,364,749.92 Donate Rep Power: 1975079	open a thread confessn ur love for him and pretend its a joke. if he answers +vely, u can carry on, if not, it was a joke! __________________

03-09-2007, 01:06 PM	#15 (permalink)
Ebony-T Onis Wifey Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Jus mutthafunkin hurrr!! Posts: 6,764 Points: 3,624.00 Bank: 112,543.18 Total Points: 116,167.18 Donate Rep Power: 196446	i bet i know who it is __________________ [color=blue][b]BITCH: When I stand up for my beliefs and myself they call me a Bitch. When I stand up for those I love, they call me a Bitch. When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things

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Mzz Nita Posts: n/a Points: 0 Bank: 0 Total Points: 0 Donate	Flirt with him on one of the threads. Rep him with a cute message.

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Mzz Nita Posts: n/a Points: 0 Bank: 0 Total Points: 0 Donate	well, start by just casually responding to anything he says on a thread. after you've built a rapport, then you can begin flirting. but steel yourself, in case he has a girlfriend. you don't want to get hurt.

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Mzz Nita Posts: n/a Points: 0 Bank: 0 Total Points: 0 Donate	I got something for you !!!!!! http://personals.yahoo.com/us/static..._cyberflirting Note: replace e-mails with PMs *Master the art of cyberflirting* For many of you, communicating for the first time with someone you have not yet met can be a stressful and confusing proposition. Others may actually find this easier than flirting in the offline world. Whichever camp you fall in, we hope that the following tips will help you find the right words, nuances, and keyboard symbols to send the right message to your online crush. Opening up the conversation If you are the first to initiate an eflirt, keep your message relatively short and simple, but always include an intriguing fact about yourself to elicit curiosity (and inspire a response). Example: Hello! I love the fact that you're a world traveler - have you ever been to Timbuktu? (Even if you've never been, you can follow up with subsequent messages about wanting to visit.) The "Open Loop/Closed Loop" email If for whatever reason you are not interested in pursuing a dialogue with your eflirtee, there are a couple of ways you can send the right message without being completely rude - this is the art of the "open- and closed-loop email." The open-looped email always ends with a question; the closed-looped email does not. The open-looped email indicates you are interested while the closed-looped hopefully lets the person know to stop emailing you. Open-looped:It sounds like you are quite a mountain biker - where do you like to ride? What kind of bike do you have? Closed-looped:That's cool that you like to bike. Take it easy. Timing is everything Similar to the offline world, timing is everything - but the rules on email are different. You do not need to wait three days to return an email, but you do need to wait more than three minutes. It's a smart idea to vary your response time, and be aware of how long he/she is taking to respond to you. Also of note: responding to emails at 10 pm on a Saturday night may not send the right message (and people, especially women do notice these things). Spelling and grammar People have very different standards for spelling and grammar in the email world. In the beginning, try to err on the grammatically correct side of things (this way they know you are capable of writing a complete sentence). It never hurts to run a spell-check or take time to proofread. After you have established a rapport, you can take more liberty using lower case, slang terms, and more casual communication. In no time, you'll be wooing prospective dates with your flirtatious emails.

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