HOMECHICKS & FELLAS . . . Let A Gurl Know . . .

iyamia01 · 06-27-2002, 05:27 PM

HOMECHICKS . . . I was just wondering . . . how far would u gurls go to look good for your man . . . personally I think dressing up once in while is ok . . . when your man first met u . . . were u dressed fine-fine or were u in that "comfort zone" attire . . . OH YEAH . . . I know u gurls have a outfit or some article of clothing that makes your man's heart throb . . . this is your chance to reveal it . . . maybe ya' IYAMIA could pick up a few pointers here and there . . . to keep her man satified . . . YA' HEARD!

And GUYS . . . what is it that your gurl wears that rearly gets u going . . . ya'll know what I mean . . .

ndi_amaka · 06-27-2002, 05:51 PM

I like to dress reasonably well all the time. The only time I look thrown together is when I'm studying or traveling.

I'd dress nicely whether or not I have a man. I do it for myself.

iyamia01 · 06-27-2002, 06:41 PM

That is right my sista . . . that is the answer I was looking for . . . cause many a times thee are alot of guys that have their priorities mixed up . . . I'm not saying that dressing for your man is a crime . . . the main reason u do it is for yourself . . . right? JUST WANTED TO MAKE A POINT . . . THIS WAS CASE FOR ME BEFORE . . .

**mc-fine** · 06-27-2002, 07:50 PM

I try to dress nice all the time. Neat but not too dressy. Plus I am not the kind of guy to go waste $40 to go buy a t-shirt that says Sean John on it. Ross and Marshalls or bust. Although lately my shit has been tore up since when I went back to Nigeria on Niaja Airways my luggage never came back with me. 70% of my baffs gone!

I should have given the clothes to my boys who were trying to oppress me back home if i had know naija airways was going to screw me like that.

deltaqueen · 06-28-2002, 06:39 AM

10 % of the time women dress up for themselves
90% of the time women dress up for men

i understand that sometimes we dress up to make ourself feel good,of course but i have come to the conclusion that when we look good, men appreciate us and of course we like that most definitely, women love attention, take for instance you want to go to the major mall, what do u dress up like/for??? so other gals dont show u up please lets be honest, me i dress to look well but i aint going to front most of thetime i dress so i can be appreciated i like it when i get out of my car and guys are checking me out it means i handled my bizness and chics aint gat nothing on me...

as for dressing up for my man I WILL ALWAYS DO THAT I WILL ALWAYS DRESS UP FOR HIM.....ITS NOT AN ISSUE OF HIM CONTROLLING ME but look at it this way this , men are visual creatures the reason they lose interest so quickly in women is because the women dont know how to continually visually stimulate their minds, when i dress up for a man, and we go out and other men look at me it makes him FEEL GOOD, i know i know......life isnt fair but that is how it is, please let us as woemn understand certain things, i am not saying live ur life around ur man but make him see what he has in u they will always look at women so keep ur shit tite take care of ur bizness......MORE TO COME

**NubianRage** · 06-28-2002, 08:13 AM

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Originally posted by mc-fine
I try to dress nice all the time. Neat but not too dressy. Plus I am not the kind of guy to go waste $40 to go buy a t-shirt that says Sean John on it. Ross and Marshalls or bust. Although lately my shit has been tore up since when I went back to Nigeria on Niaja Airways my luggage never came back with me. 70% of my baffs gone! I should have given the clothes to my boys who were trying to oppress me back home if i had know naija airways was going to screw me like that.

Oh boy, shey that nah ur face? . . . hmmmmmm fyne bobo

Well anyway I always look good . . . to myself at least. If u meet me at home, well am at home & i have the right to be running around in a wrapper, no undies & hair undone.
Oh & guys usually like their chicks with their t-shirt & their panties on . . . oh & the t-shirt is not really required.

soulbrotha · 06-29-2002, 03:33 AM

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Originally posted by NubianRage

Oh boy, shey that nah ur face? . . . hmmmmmm fyne bobo

Well anyway I always look good . . . to myself at least. If u meet me at home, well am at home & i have the right to be running around in a wrapper, no undies & hair undone.
Oh & guys usually like their chicks with their t-shirt & their panties on . . . oh & the t-shirt is not really required.

Argghh...Nubbii...wetin now?

how did you know about the tshirt bit tho....that's a soulsecret...

pebbles · 07-27-2002, 10:43 PM

I think u'r wrong at generalizing all women just becuase of how u do ur thing
I luv to dress up. It makes me feel good. I don't know if other ppl feel this way but for example, it like wearing a sexy underwear, even though no one will see it, it just feels good. I had to dress boring atimes cos ppl in school after compliementing on how good i look, then they as if i'm going somewhere special. My other school in europe everyone dresses up so no one thought I was different.
I love dressing and I can't help it and if ppl think its i do it for men then good for them then.

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Originally posted by deltaqueen
10 % of the time women dress up for themselves
90% of the time women dress up for men

i understand that sometimes we dress up to make ourself feel good,of course but i have come to the conclusion that when we look good, men appreciate us and of course we like that most definitely, women love attention, take for instance you want to go to the major mall, what do u dress up like/for??? so other gals dont show u up please lets be honest, me i dress to look well but i aint going to front most of thetime i dress so i can be appreciated i like it when i get out of my car and guys are checking me out it means i handled my bizness and chics aint gat nothing on me...

as for dressing up for my man I WILL ALWAYS DO THAT I WILL ALWAYS DRESS UP FOR HIM.....ITS NOT AN ISSUE OF HIM CONTROLLING ME but look at it this way this , men are visual creatures the reason they lose interest so quickly in women is because the women dont know how to continually visually stimulate their minds, when i dress up for a man, and we go out and other men look at me it makes him FEEL GOOD, i know i know......life isnt fair but that is how it is, please let us as woemn understand certain things, i am not saying live ur life around ur man but make him see what he has in u they will always look at women so keep ur shit tite take care of ur bizness......MORE TO COME

Abela · 07-29-2002, 03:42 PM

as per casual dressing......I kinda like d one where u gals wear dem short tops and hipsters (hope I'm right) with the thong showing...........hhhmmmmm.....drives a brother up the wall.............perfect combination of sluty & cute.

**mc-fine** · 07-29-2002, 11:27 PM

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Originally posted by Abela
as per casual dressing......I kinda like d one where u gals wear dem short tops and hipsters (hope I'm right) with the thong showing...........hhhmmmmm.....drives a brother up the wall.............perfect combination of sluty & cute.

Lol i totally agree.

iyamia01 · 07-30-2002, 01:09 AM

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Originally posted by mc-fine

Lol i totally agree.

HAVE DEFINITELY DE CRAZE, JARE . . . .

soulbrotha · 07-30-2002, 03:44 AM

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Originally posted by Abela
as per casual dressing......I kinda like d one where u gals wear dem short tops and hipsters (hope I'm right) with the thong showing...........hhhmmmmm.....drives a brother up the wall.............perfect combination of sluty & cute.

O boy no be when we fit see the underwear sha...that is a TURN DOWN!!

06-27-2002, 05:27 PM	#1 (permalink)
iyamia01 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Houston, TX Posts: 912 Points: 121.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 121.00 Donate Rep Power: 22	HOMECHICKS & FELLAS . . . Let A Gurl Know . . . HOMECHICKS . . . I was just wondering . . . how far would u gurls go to look good for your man . . . personally I think dressing up once in while is ok . . . when your man first met u . . . were u dressed fine-fine or were u in that "comfort zone" attire . . . OH YEAH . . . I know u gurls have a outfit or some article of clothing that makes your man's heart throb . . . this is your chance to reveal it . . . maybe ya' IYAMIA could pick up a few pointers here and there . . . to keep her man satified . . . YA' HEARD! And GUYS . . . what is it that your gurl wears that rearly gets u going . . . ya'll know what I mean . . . __________________ A RELATIONSHIP IS PLACING ONE`S HEART AND SOUL IN THE HANDS OF ANOTHER WHILE TAKING CHARGE OF ANOTHER IN ONE`S SOUL AND HEART. -Thomas Crowne's Wife . . . Last edited by iyamia01; 06-27-2002 at 05:32 PM..

06-27-2002, 06:41 PM	#3 (permalink)
iyamia01 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Houston, TX Posts: 912 Points: 121.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 121.00 Donate Rep Power: 22	That is right my sista . . . that is the answer I was looking for . . . cause many a times thee are alot of guys that have their priorities mixed up . . . I'm not saying that dressing for your man is a crime . . . the main reason u do it is for yourself . . . right? JUST WANTED TO MAKE A POINT . . . THIS WAS CASE FOR ME BEFORE . . . __________________ A RELATIONSHIP IS PLACING ONE`S HEART AND SOUL IN THE HANDS OF ANOTHER WHILE TAKING CHARGE OF ANOTHER IN ONE`S SOUL AND HEART. -Thomas Crowne's Wife . . .

06-27-2002, 07:50 PM	#4 (permalink)
mc-fine Elder Join Date: May 2002 Location: Repping the Dutch Posts: 4,497 Points: 2,000.00 Bank: 187,216.60 Total Points: 189,216.60 Donate Rep Power: 44969	I try to dress nice all the time. Neat but not too dressy. Plus I am not the kind of guy to go waste $40 to go buy a t-shirt that says Sean John on it. Ross and Marshalls or bust. Although lately my shit has been tore up since when I went back to Nigeria on Niaja Airways my luggage never came back with me. 70% of my baffs gone! I should have given the clothes to my boys who were trying to oppress me back home if i had know naija airways was going to screw me like that. __________________ "I am Lebron James. You don't want to be me. My jumper is still broke." - Nike

06-28-2002, 06:39 AM	#5 (permalink)
deltaqueen Registered User Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 166 Points: 277.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 277.00 Donate Rep Power: 0	10 % of the time women dress up for themselves 90% of the time women dress up for men i understand that sometimes we dress up to make ourself feel good,of course but i have come to the conclusion that when we look good, men appreciate us and of course we like that most definitely, women love attention, take for instance you want to go to the major mall, what do u dress up like/for??? so other gals dont show u up please lets be honest, me i dress to look well but i aint going to front most of thetime i dress so i can be appreciated i like it when i get out of my car and guys are checking me out it means i handled my bizness and chics aint gat nothing on me... as for dressing up for my man I WILL ALWAYS DO THAT I WILL ALWAYS DRESS UP FOR HIM.....ITS NOT AN ISSUE OF HIM CONTROLLING ME but look at it this way this , men are visual creatures the reason they lose interest so quickly in women is because the women dont know how to continually visually stimulate their minds, when i dress up for a man, and we go out and other men look at me it makes him FEEL GOOD, i know i know......life isnt fair but that is how it is, please let us as woemn understand certain things, i am not saying live ur life around ur man but make him see what he has in u they will always look at women so keep ur shit tite take care of ur bizness......MORE TO COME __________________ I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help. My help cometh from the LORD, which made heaven and earth. He will not suffer my foot to be moved: he that keepeth me will not slumber. Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep. The LORD is my keeper: the LORD is my shade upon my right hand. The sun shall not smite me by day, nor the moon by night. The LORD shall preserve me from all evil: he shall preserve my soul. The LORD shall preserve my going out and my coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore. Amen.

07-29-2002, 03:42 PM	#9 (permalink)
Abela Registered User Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: London Posts: 665 Points: 22,037.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 22,037.00 Donate Rep Power: 22	as per casual dressing......I kinda like d one where u gals wear dem short tops and hipsters (hope I'm right) with the thong showing...........hhhmmmmm.....drives a brother up the wall.............perfect combination of sluty & cute. __________________ Na pesin wey dey argue with king dey kneel down tey.

06-27-2002, 05:51 PM	#2 (permalink)
ndi_amaka Sexiest Ryder Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Taking my Throne Posts: 26,001 Points: 137,500.00 Bank: 15,528.86 Total Points: 153,028.86 Donate Rep Power: 644340	I like to dress reasonably well all the time. The only time I look thrown together is when I'm studying or traveling. I'd dress nicely whether or not I have a man. I do it for myself.

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