dear abi, my friend has given birth

**Wendydoks** · 01-10-2007, 03:51 PM

but b4 she did, she said i was goinna be the god mother of the child. well, she has successfully given birth to child and i have bought all kinds of gifts 4 this child. Now, she also told me she willname the child after me, turns out the child has anoda name. when she told me, i told her the name was cute but am actually mad she did dat 2 me. am trynna be understanding here but is it selfish of me to ba mad @ her? plus am not skeptical abou her still makin me the child's godmom. she might even give it anoda pesin a nd give me a story.

Efizzybaby · 01-10-2007, 03:52 PM

humm.u been played..

**Wendydoks** · 01-10-2007, 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by efizzybaby

humm.u been played..

right? and to think dat i was the 1st she told about her story and still stood by her now she gon do me wrong. i dont kno. maybe am jes being selfish sha.

**NARNIA** · 01-10-2007, 06:00 PM

ah! No be by force oh! When u have ur own mini-u, u can name the child after u. People r always tryna make up their minds during the process..as per while they r still preggy! U have to take into consideration that parents, grandparents and all those 'important' people play a major role in naming babies so she might give the next one to u.

U shud buy stuff for the baby cos u care not bcos u were going to get a title! Otherwise, its only eye-service u r doing and u r doing urself. If u want to be good cos the chick is a good friend then do that. U dont have to get something in exchange for niceness...if u do then its not being nice...its trade -by-barter!!

**Wendydoks** · 01-11-2007, 03:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Narnia Bubukov

ah! No be by force oh! When u have ur own mini-u, u can name the child after u. People r always tryna make up their minds during the process..as per while they r still preggy! U have to take into consideration that parents, grandparents and all those 'important' people play a major role in naming babies so she might give the next one to u.

U shud buy stuff for the baby cos u care not bcos u were going to get a title! Otherwise, its only eye-service u r doing and u r doing urself. If u want to be good cos the chick is a good friend then do that. U dont have to get something in exchange for niceness...if u do then its not being nice...its trade -by-barter!!

yeah, i actually bought dem cos i cared plus as 4 the future godmom

but yeah, thx 4 the advice.

**Lopez** · 01-11-2007, 03:29 AM

WAssup abt this Godmom, Godfather kini dat pple wan have hypertension abt

is there more to it than I think?

**Wendydoks** · 01-11-2007, 03:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Lopez

WAssup abt this Godmom, Godfather kini dat pple wan have hypertension abt

is there more to it than I think?

yeah thers more to it. its like being a mom to a child dat aint urs. u kno how much of a big deal it is 4 anoda woman's child to call u mom or dad?? the only diff. is jes the "God" there.

crAzy Don · 02-08-2007, 07:52 AM

Such things are shruggable...not a big deal really...it's her baby...she can do wuteva she wants...shdnt really affect ur friendship with her.

*DiamOnd* · 02-09-2007, 04:48 AM

OH PLZ YOU ARE SUCH A DUMB ASS. LIKE PEOPLE DONT HAVE THE RIGHT TO CHANGE THEIR NAME. *HISSS* AND DAT UR UGLY NAME..I DONT BLAME HER she came 2 her senses

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