dear abi (scenario 7)

xoxoluwaxox · 01-10-2007, 12:59 AM

sorry narnia, but i had another problem that needs attending to....

I resently slept at my girlfriends house because we were partying that weekend.
In the middle of the night someone starts kissing me and i automatically thought it was my husband. i was half asleep so it felt like a dream. but my husband felt extra soft and i gain ful conciousness to see it's my friend!!!!! she is kissing me! and i was kissing her back. WE were touching! OMG! what do i do? how do i tell my husband? wait! do i tell my husband? how do i confront her? that night i didnt say anything. i just sprung up, and drove home, and slept on the couch. my husband woke me the next morning asking why i was home. i said i was not feeling good and didnt want to wake him. so i've already lied and will get in trouble if i tell him. does this make me a lesbian? if i liked it, how do i tell myself not to? im a christian! i cant like girls.

Efizzybaby · 01-10-2007, 01:01 AM

Hahhaaaa...........dem do reach ur side too...hummmmm..

**NARNIA** · 01-10-2007, 03:01 PM

nope! u aint no lesbian oh! Ur fiend is! Its not like u initiated the ish and u stopped it and went home. Depending on ur husband really. If he has a nasty mind, u dont want to tell him and he keeps bringing it up even if its a joke....or u can tell him about it but skip details like who it was, when it happened. It can ba a ...can u believe this girl kissed me and sha continue. Dont give too much sha! IMO!!

**Wendydoks** · 01-10-2007, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Narnia Bubukov

nope! u aint no lesbian oh! Ur fiend is! Its not like u initiated the ish and u stopped it and went home. Depending on ur husband really. If he has a nasty mind, u dont want to tell him and he keeps bringing it up even if its a joke....or u can tell him about it but skip details like who it was, when it happened. It can ba a ...can u believe this girl kissed me and sha continue. Dont give too much sha! IMO!!

wat she said.

but dang! u and ya scenerios sha. do more me likes

teluwa · 01-11-2007, 10:04 AM

lol tell your husband...and as a xtian go pray oh that u wnt be thinking bout that incident making it stem into something else

Chioms · 01-11-2007, 10:33 AM

tell your husband, i's possible he has something to confess to you too and this will be his opportunity to " let the cat out of the bag" or "come out of the closet"

He may just say " darling (with tears streaming down his cheeks) thank you so much at least now i know i'm not alone. remember my friend Oke, well the last time we went to naija together and we were stranded at schipol airport, there was just one room available at the airport hotel and we opted to share it. Oke took the couch while i took the bed, at night, i felt someone touching me and i thought it was you, someone kissed me and i returned the kiss, it was when i felt something hard touching my back that i woke up and realised it wsa oke.... needless to say we continued and i must admit i liked it

xoxoluwaxox · 01-12-2007, 01:11 AM

DANG and i thought I was sick! nice reply chioms!

01-29-2007, 05:57 PM

@ replies. y'all are silly.

under no circumstances do you want to tell your husband anything. No matter how much prodding, begging, and pleading he does, do NOT say anything to him about what happened. If your friend is someone that you have to see regularly, then I suggest that you talk to her about it and tell her it made you very uncomfortable. Let's leave it at 'you were dreaming, you didn't know who you were kissing.' However, if you allowed it to continue after realizing who it was, then you have some serious thinking to do about your sexual preference. Good luck to you.

01-10-2007, 03:01 PM	#3 (permalink)
NARNIA Wife to the Senator King of All Nite Ryders Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: ..stuck btw a rock and a hard place.. Posts: 8,500 Points: 13,127.25 Bank: 2,351,622.67 Total Points: 2,364,749.92 Donate Rep Power: 1975079	nope! u aint no lesbian oh! Ur fiend is! Its not like u initiated the ish and u stopped it and went home. Depending on ur husband really. If he has a nasty mind, u dont want to tell him and he keeps bringing it up even if its a joke....or u can tell him about it but skip details like who it was, when it happened. It can ba a ...can u believe this girl kissed me and sha continue. Dont give too much sha! IMO!! __________________

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teluwa Registered User Join Date: May 2005 Location: hmmm let me seee...... Posts: 738 Points: 328.00 Bank: 6,632.98 Total Points: 6,960.98 Donate Rep Power: 5883	lol tell your husband...and as a xtian go pray oh that u wnt be thinking bout that incident making it stem into something else __________________ Any girl can look glamorous all she has to do is stand and look stupid...tsk tsk tsk

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Chioms Registered User Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: At home Posts: 3,165 Points: 2,121.65 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 2,121.65 Donate Rep Power: 286074	tell your husband, i's possible he has something to confess to you too and this will be his opportunity to " let the cat out of the bag" or "come out of the closet" He may just say " darling (with tears streaming down his cheeks) thank you so much at least now i know i'm not alone. remember my friend Oke, well the last time we went to naija together and we were stranded at schipol airport, there was just one room available at the airport hotel and we opted to share it. Oke took the couch while i took the bed, at night, i felt someone touching me and i thought it was you, someone kissed me and i returned the kiss, it was when i felt something hard touching my back that i woke up and realised it wsa oke.... needless to say we continued and i must admit i liked it __________________ it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them

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01-29-2007, 05:57 PM	#8 (permalink)
Mzz Nita Posts: n/a Points: 0 Bank: 0 Total Points: 0 Donate	@ replies. y'all are silly. under no circumstances do you want to tell your husband anything. No matter how much prodding, begging, and pleading he does, do NOT say anything to him about what happened. If your friend is someone that you have to see regularly, then I suggest that you talk to her about it and tell her it made you very uncomfortable. Let's leave it at 'you were dreaming, you didn't know who you were kissing.' However, if you allowed it to continue after realizing who it was, then you have some serious thinking to do about your sexual preference. Good luck to you.

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