Dear Abi (scenario 6)

[xoxoluwaxox]

ok i've been dating this guy for a few months now, and i just realized my friend calls him to talk to him on the regular. like i call and he's on the other line with her. i hang up and she's calling. we're in the movies and he's texting her. more than he does me. i'm getting a bit irritated and jealious. what is he talking to her about that he cant be talking to me about. and to make it worse. i come over and he said she was just there a few mins ago, and she brought food. i was so mad i envisioned myself throwing the food out the window onto her head. WTH does she think she's doing? and if i'm saying something nice about my BF to another friend. she will interject something like. "oh i just talked to him a few mins ago. he says hi" or "oh i just saw him" SO? do i give an Eff if you saw him(well yes i do otherwise i wouldnt be typing) but who is SHE to be telling me where my man was, or who he was talking to a few mins ago. did i ask? how is it beneficial to me to hear that. i really think she is trying to step in. and he asked her to re-arrange his apt for her. he said i was busy with exams and didnt want to bother me. HAH! and the binsh wouldnt even have gotten his number but she was asking me to ask him to move her furnature to her new apt with his truck. i should have been a binsh and said he was busy. and avoided all this. but the wierd thing. though all this, he still shows me affection and tells me how much he likes me.
and when i told him i dont like her trying to be around him alot. he said she's your friend. she wont do something like that. if you dont want me to talk to her i wont(but if i say dont talk to her, i look bad and if i say yes, i'm a fool) and he's saying i'm fine past her and that i have nothing to worry about. but women are ruthless o.

[NARNIA]

if she's YOUR friend, tell her that u r uncomfy wiv it! A real friend will understand unless they were friends b4 boff of u started dating. Besides, it has only been a few months. Give the relationship tim to grow and solidify b4 u start requestn changes in his life!!

Ok...no more scenarios...my fingers...

[xoxoluwaxox]

hehehehe. thanks!

what Narnia Bubukov said. I hope you did have a talk with her and tell her that it makes you uncomfortable (especially since she met him through you). If she's really your friend and respects you, then she shouldn't be spending so much time with your boyfriend.


meanwhile xoxoluwaxox: you came up with all these scenarios just as i was taking my NR break