[Dear Abi]

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1.You are obligated to treat everyone in this forum with respect.
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3.Please post a concern in a thread. Do not use it as a play ground as issues that are not related to the objective intended for this board will be deleted immediately.
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[I]Disclaimer: As always I have never proclaimed to be a doctor and do not profess to be one. I only give insight where I think I know. If I don't, I will point you to available resources that are equipped to answer question(s) that may be life threatening or life-changing, or otherwise. I am not always right so I suggest you seek the help of a higher echelon in your community, thus a therapist that can give you an educated guide when matters are serious. This service will help point people to appropriate resources to guide them in their thoughts.

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