Advise Pls

Diallo · 09-08-2005, 01:36 PM

I got a situation here or rather 2 situations in which I don't wanna get involved and I need some advice.

First of all if a girl used to call all the time and suddenly stops calling and doesn't answer her mails do you think its right to assume that the relationship is over without talking to her after all she had reasons for not calling.

Secondly is it right to assume fishy business when a girl sleeps in a guys room. take note she has a boyfriend and her own room, and this is a guy she didn't really like before, all of a sudden they are all cuddly.

naija_pikin · 09-08-2005, 01:51 PM

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Originally posted by Diallo
I got a situation here or rather 2 situations in which I don't wanna get involved and I need some advice.

First of all if a girl used to call all the time and suddenly stops calling and doesn't answer her mails do you think its right to assume that the relationship is over without talking to her after all she had reasons for not calling.

Secondly is it right to assume fishy business when a girl sleeps in a guys room. take note she has a boyfriend and her own room, and this is a guy she didn't really like before, all of a sudden they are all cuddly.

1st: Never assume, call her and clear that ish up. Don't leave room for any form of misunderstanding.

2nd: ..the frigg? That's more than fishy.

Okoronkwo · 09-08-2005, 02:11 PM

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Originally posted by Diallo
I got a situation here or rather 2 situations in which I don't wanna get involved and I need some advice.

First of all if a girl used to call all the time and suddenly stops calling and doesn't answer her mails do you think its right to assume that the relationship is over without talking to her after all she had reasons for not calling.

Secondly is it right to assume fishy business when a girl sleeps in a guys room. take note she has a boyfriend and her own room, and this is a guy she didn't really like before, all of a sudden they are all cuddly.

You gat got!!

Okay seriously tho, what I do in cases like the first is, stop calling too. Reciprocate. If the girl no dey call, then don't call..... Move on. Unless of course you realy have feelings for the girl. In which case you can only but try a couple more times before you let go.

Second scenario....... I dunno. For me, I just stop being real cool and start being a mini asshole. Don't ask no questions or say anything about it. Just treat her like the slut that she projects herself to be. Sooner or later she'll ask you what happened. Your reply- "Nothing, why?"
"You've been acting different lately

"
"F'real? Why'd you think so?

"
"What did I do?"
"Umm, I dunno......... what did YOU do? U tell me. There's no problem here on my side...... hey, I'm horny by the way"

If she was innocent all along you'll know. If she wasn't it won't be long before she fesses up to you. I dunno if it will work in a "cheaty" situation like that but it works for me in other less serious scenarios.....

chinaedu · 09-08-2005, 05:04 PM

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Originally posted by Diallo
I got a situation here or rather 2 situations in which I don't wanna get involved and I need some advice.

First of all if a girl used to call all the time and suddenly stops calling and doesn't answer her mails do you think its right to assume that the relationship is over without talking to her after all she had reasons for not calling.

Secondly is it right to assume fishy business when a girl sleeps in a guys room. take note she has a boyfriend and her own room, and this is a guy she didn't really like before, all of a sudden they are all cuddly.

In response to ur first question, grow some balls and don't call her dude, but if u insist on calling her, keep in mind dat it only makes u look like a bitch and a stalker

and for ur second question, common men put 2 and 2 together, she won't just be in his room for the fun of it

Trespass · 09-08-2005, 06:21 PM

When you get an answer to these-- please share, i'm also curious

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Originally posted by Diallo
I got a situation here or rather 2 situations in which I don't wanna get involved and I need some advice.

First of all if a girl used to call all the time and suddenly stops calling and doesn't answer her mails do you think its right to assume that the relationship is over without talking to her after all she had reasons for not calling.

Secondly is it right to assume fishy business when a girl sleeps in a guys room. take note she has a boyfriend and her own room, and this is a guy she didn't really like before, all of a sudden they are all cuddly.

Diallo · 09-08-2005, 06:32 PM

In the first case we are going to talk, and in the second case I just dey sorry for the bobo, cuz de guy still dey fall in our flat dey find de babe but me I no wan put mouth cuz de girl don already tell me say she wan be like im sister.

**Nene** · 09-08-2005, 06:38 PM

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Originally posted by Diallo

Secondly is it right to assume fishy business when a girl sleeps in a guys room. take note she has a boyfriend and her own room, and this is a guy she didn't really like before, all of a sudden they are all cuddly.

wait until u catch then red handed cause u can't ever tell. They might just be good buddies with nothing sexual involved.

Diallo · 09-08-2005, 07:40 PM

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Originally posted by Nene
wait until u catch then red handed cause u can't ever tell. They might just be good buddies with nothing sexual involved.

lets just say that recent events are beginning to prove otherwise. If someone had told me something like this had happened I would have defended the girl wholeheartedly. Ah well maybe she needs some plumbing.

poor guy

chinaedu · 09-08-2005, 07:52 PM

if her bobo na ur boi it's best to let him know

Diallo · 09-08-2005, 08:16 PM

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Originally posted by chudi
if her bobo na ur boi it's best to let him know

na thru de girl na im I know her bobo, and na thru her bobo na im she know dis new guy. All of us except for her bobo na flatmates and as day dey go I dey suspect de more, infact before I tink say she dey cut eye for me but I don tell am my levels and dis case wey all of us dey house na double trouble. Dis oyibo sef

Well for weekend na im we go find out.

Diallo · 09-09-2005, 01:34 AM

I have proof now, hmmm this surprising, considering she is older than him with about 5-6 years. ah well such is life

Okoronkwo · 09-09-2005, 03:13 AM

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Originally posted by Diallo
I have proof now, hmmm this surprising, considering she is older than him with about 5-6 years. ah well such is life

You live, learn and move on bruh. Like you said, such is life. Be thankful that it happenbed now as opposed to later when you already get strong feelings for the girl, cos you were apparently headed down that road..... Be easy mehn.

By the way, sup with the female stats over there where u at? Naija girls full there? The chics there love black man?

slowstyle · 09-09-2005, 05:31 AM

u always gotta confront them. i learned thats the best way to go cause they're gonna say y did u keep it in all that time. well, nice to know now instead of later. good soap.

**aku** · 09-09-2005, 05:37 AM

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Originally posted by Diallo
I got a situation here or rather 2 situations in which I don't wanna get involved and I need some advice.

First of all if a girl used to call all the time and suddenly stops calling and doesn't answer her mails do you think its right to assume that the relationship is over without talking to her after all she had reasons for not calling.

Secondly is it right to assume fishy business when a girl sleeps in a guys room. take note she has a boyfriend and her own room, and this is a guy she didn't really like before, all of a sudden they are all cuddly.

For the first question, it could mean that she is busy. Or it could be that she got tired of always calling you......................never make assumptions. Ask the girl first.

For the second question, it sounds like something I could do. I don't see it as big deal...............and anyone who knows me won't make anything big about it. But out of respect for my so, I may think twice about it

schynam · 09-09-2005, 07:01 AM

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Originally posted by Diallo
I got a situation here or rather 2 situations in which I don't wanna get involved and I need some advice.

First of all if a girl used to call all the time and suddenly stops calling and doesn't answer her mails do you think its right to assume that the relationship is over without talking to her after all she had reasons for not calling.

Secondly is it right to assume fishy business when a girl sleeps in a guys room. take note she has a boyfriend and her own room, and this is a guy she didn't really like before, all of a sudden they are all cuddly.

1) Take a page from Ebony Toone's thread on how to set the ignore button. You or whoever it is just got ignored big time. No point in chasing after dead fish.
Move on bro!

2) She is probably seeking comfort in the arms of the other guy. Am sure u know what's going on. Don't let it eat into u. Find a new chick that would be sleeping in your own room too. And u would soon find out the other gurl does no exist anymore.

Good luck!

09-08-2005, 01:36 PM	#1 (permalink)
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Diallo OLOROGUN 1 Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Cottbus Posts: 8,954 Points: 11,785.80 Bank: 6,124.53 Total Points: 17,910.33 Donate Rep Power: 21474872	In the first case we are going to talk, and in the second case I just dey sorry for the bobo, cuz de guy still dey fall in our flat dey find de babe but me I no wan put mouth cuz de girl don already tell me say she wan be like im sister. __________________ Virginity like bubble, one prick, all gone. Man who run in front of car get tired, man who run behind car get exhausted. Man with hand in pocket feel cocky all day. Wife who put husband in doghouse soon find him in cat house. Man who drive like hell, bound to get there. Crowded elevator smell different to midget. No mata de weight of elephant, e no fit cause earthquake If you no get moni, u be monki

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Diallo OLOROGUN 1 Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Cottbus Posts: 8,954 Points: 11,785.80 Bank: 6,124.53 Total Points: 17,910.33 Donate Rep Power: 21474872	I have proof now, hmmm this surprising, considering she is older than him with about 5-6 years. ah well such is life __________________ Virginity like bubble, one prick, all gone. Man who run in front of car get tired, man who run behind car get exhausted. Man with hand in pocket feel cocky all day. Wife who put husband in doghouse soon find him in cat house. Man who drive like hell, bound to get there. Crowded elevator smell different to midget. No mata de weight of elephant, e no fit cause earthquake If you no get moni, u be monki

09-09-2005, 05:31 AM	#13 (permalink)
slowstyle Registered User Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Texas Posts: 703 Points: 9,237.50 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 9,237.50 Donate Rep Power: 128228	u always gotta confront them. i learned thats the best way to go cause they're gonna say y did u keep it in all that time. well, nice to know now instead of later. good soap. __________________ Drive slow homie Those who do right will be in the minority, but to obey God is more important than to obey people (Acts 5:29)

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